Fluffybunny's Sex Magnet 3 Journal

[Shannon]

@stratos

Thanks stratos; I keep backing out of approaches because "I'm not 100% attracted to her". It's a stupid belief, since I likely won't ever find a woman like that. The one's where I've had doubt, and acted anyways, usually had these women lighten up and be super cool.

That's an easy way to hide from something that scares you. "She's not good enough in some way." Very common. Another variant is "I'm not good enough in some way."

Get over it. Do it anyway. The chance of being 100% attracted to a woman, or attractive to a woman, is pretty damned slim. Face that fear and kick it to the curb. Do it anyway.