Fluffybunny's Sex Magnet 3 Journal

[Shannon]

You get a girl to fall in love with you by being and doing what completes her love map. It depends on her particular personality makeup and also has to do with her physiology and history. Some women need to be talked down, some need to be seduced into it through touch, some will respond to romance, and some respond to action and displays of passion. Then you have those who require some combination of these... it is complex and you have to really understand her to know how to get her to fall in love with you if she would not naturally do so on her own.

Being the living, breathing expression of love and/or lovingness will definitely get you places with women. Kindness, gentleness, consideration of her feelings and reputation, honestly, openness, trustworthiness, and appreciating her in spite of her real or imagined flaws... and giving her what she needs to understand that she is cared about and loved, and in her own "love language" is very important. This of course will lead to romantic love. You have to steer it into sexual or attract women who understand sex as love otherwise.