02-12-2014, 08:46 AM
Yeah, I had the "girls suddenly appearing all around me" thing happen as well - at some point during the night I'm like "f-ck it, I like this song" and I focus only on that and on dancing and enjoing it, and then voilà!
three different groups of girls casually end up dancing around me.
They keep the distance tho, and I don't know how to proceed.
For me the issue is not how to get close to them, or really close to them, but it's how do I go for the last 10%? How do I take the last step?
I feel icky at the idea of just grabbing her like all the other guys do. Ugh.
There must be a way to make it "official" between you and her without being gross about it.
three different groups of girls casually end up dancing around me.
They keep the distance tho, and I don't know how to proceed.
For me the issue is not how to get close to them, or really close to them, but it's how do I go for the last 10%? How do I take the last step?
I feel icky at the idea of just grabbing her like all the other guys do. Ugh.
There must be a way to make it "official" between you and her without being gross about it.
All fear is illusion.
