Your post brings up something i've just been realizing recently.
I rarely really get girls making eye contact and smiling at me, but what I do get alot is girls randomly appearing just next to me when there's plenty of space around me and the latest thing i'm noticing at the gym is girls even when the gym is empty will stop right in front of me either messaging or pretending to message on their phone.
I really noticed it yesterday, I talked to her and she was very happy I did and actually sat down near me to chat and when I got up she got up instantly and then was giggling with her friend.
Then her other friend who already stretched like 5 minutes before then come and sat right next to me when I was stretching and did a few stretches and I said nothing and she went back to the first girl I talked to and they were both looking at me.
I noticed it today, I said "hows it going" to a girl that come in. Then I was stretching and she stopped right in front of me 'messaging' on her phone. I then did a stretch where I looked away from her (not on purpose) and she left pretty quick like she was annoyed I looked away and did nothing.
The thing is that when I hesitate they are gone, they really don't do this for very long and you have to get it quick.
It's like they are intimidated by me, because everytime I can think of in the past girls have hung around next to me like this and i've talked to them they have been very happy and responsive when I talked to them. But yet before that I got very little eye contact, no smiles or stuff like that to acknowledge it.
So my new mindset i'm working on to go along with this "if she comes close to me like this, she wants me to talk to her".
Hope that helps man, it's just a fresh realization that i'm working to cement.
As for the other stuff where you say you're feeling nothing, it sounds like something is being worked on around not caring so much about girls or neediness or something.
-Ben
I rarely really get girls making eye contact and smiling at me, but what I do get alot is girls randomly appearing just next to me when there's plenty of space around me and the latest thing i'm noticing at the gym is girls even when the gym is empty will stop right in front of me either messaging or pretending to message on their phone.
I really noticed it yesterday, I talked to her and she was very happy I did and actually sat down near me to chat and when I got up she got up instantly and then was giggling with her friend.
Then her other friend who already stretched like 5 minutes before then come and sat right next to me when I was stretching and did a few stretches and I said nothing and she went back to the first girl I talked to and they were both looking at me.
I noticed it today, I said "hows it going" to a girl that come in. Then I was stretching and she stopped right in front of me 'messaging' on her phone. I then did a stretch where I looked away from her (not on purpose) and she left pretty quick like she was annoyed I looked away and did nothing.
The thing is that when I hesitate they are gone, they really don't do this for very long and you have to get it quick.
It's like they are intimidated by me, because everytime I can think of in the past girls have hung around next to me like this and i've talked to them they have been very happy and responsive when I talked to them. But yet before that I got very little eye contact, no smiles or stuff like that to acknowledge it.
So my new mindset i'm working on to go along with this "if she comes close to me like this, she wants me to talk to her".
Hope that helps man, it's just a fresh realization that i'm working to cement.
As for the other stuff where you say you're feeling nothing, it sounds like something is being worked on around not caring so much about girls or neediness or something.
-Ben
