The typical PUA wants to bang in 1 to 6 hours after meeting a woman, and some of them get quite good at making that happen. But for them the focus is so heavily on sex that they forget that anything else has any value, for her or themselves.
The younger a female is, the easier she will be to have sex with on the same day you meet her - unless she's coming after you as a cougar. In most cases, that's because she (cougar) has been there, done that and learned what it's like and what she does and does not prefer. Most women - real women, not girls - have outgrown that sort of thing. They need a slower, gentler, more mature approach. You can still be going only for sex, but it's going to have to deal with her past burns, baggage and experience. It's all about trust. If she can trust you, and you've kept the sexual vibe going, you've got it made.
Same day sex seems to me to be more about the challenge, or the sex, than anything else, and I personally don't care for it. In fact I will turn women down for sex on the first day, or the first date, 99 times out of 100. This is extremely powerful for two reasons:
1. When you tell a hot woman no, you have the sexual power, and she will be impressed and even more attracted. Nobody else is doing that...
2. It makes a relationship much more likely and more likely to be healthy if it does happen.
Just because it's my style doesn't make it good for everyone. As with all things, take what works for you and leave the rest behind.
The younger a female is, the easier she will be to have sex with on the same day you meet her - unless she's coming after you as a cougar. In most cases, that's because she (cougar) has been there, done that and learned what it's like and what she does and does not prefer. Most women - real women, not girls - have outgrown that sort of thing. They need a slower, gentler, more mature approach. You can still be going only for sex, but it's going to have to deal with her past burns, baggage and experience. It's all about trust. If she can trust you, and you've kept the sexual vibe going, you've got it made.
Same day sex seems to me to be more about the challenge, or the sex, than anything else, and I personally don't care for it. In fact I will turn women down for sex on the first day, or the first date, 99 times out of 100. This is extremely powerful for two reasons:
1. When you tell a hot woman no, you have the sexual power, and she will be impressed and even more attracted. Nobody else is doing that...
2. It makes a relationship much more likely and more likely to be healthy if it does happen.
Just because it's my style doesn't make it good for everyone. As with all things, take what works for you and leave the rest behind.
Subliminal Audio Specialist & Administrator
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
