02-20-2016, 12:11 PM
(02-20-2016, 11:46 AM)CatMan Wrote: Incredible story about you and passing out like that. I fully sympathise about you avoiding left turns after, don't feel embarrassed about that. I suppose in reality, it's no different than me being deeply hurt by girls constantly when young. And now avoiding vulnerability, weakness, intimacy with them in anyway so they can't hurt me again and viewing them with an air of impossibility to get, fear, anger and resentment.
I never felt embarrassed by what I was feeling and neither should you about what you are feeling with women!! The best feeling I could use to describe what I was going through was "crippling" I was wondering how is it possible other people are capable of doing something so simple and I can't...
Just give it time, these are things I am noticing. Not really giving too much thought. One day you will be in a situation with a woman that you are really attracted to and when the sex is over you will be thinking... "That went so smoothly... "Holy Siht!!, I just got laid!!!" When this "In-The-Moment State Shifting" kicks in, you are on auto-pilot. It's like watching yourself in a movie doing all the right things to get you through the situation you are currently in.
INTP-A
When you imagine something vividly... your subconscious will bring it into reality.
When you imagine something vividly... your subconscious will bring it into reality.