10-05-2015, 05:16 PM
6. (I missed yesterday)
Okay, I've realized something. I somehow have some kind of fear/aversion towards interacting with groups of people that I don't feel are all my friends. Recently, I have been avoiding approaching girls that are in groups or if it's a girl I've recently met, I avoid approaching her while she's with a group of people I haven't met. When I've said before that I had social fears/anxiety, this is the biggest thing. Interacting with groups. I don't know why this is, but if anyone has any suggestions on how to completely get rid of this, I'd appreciate it. Specifically, in one of my classes this is case and when I get to class, I just don't know what to say when I get there to join the convo. Normally, I never think "oh, what do I say", again, it's only in these specific group situations where I don't feel like I'm friends with everyone in the group. Because of these weird feelings, I didn't even talk to a girl I wanted to in the class. I've talked with her before, but it's this group thing...it makes me feel weird and I don't like it.
In contrast to that, I saw a few girls that I have been wanting to talk to and I just so happen to see them today. I approach them and all of the interactions go well. I feel totally comfortable with this...but not with a group dynamic of mixed friends/people I haven't met.
Anyway, Sunday's on it's way.
Okay, I've realized something. I somehow have some kind of fear/aversion towards interacting with groups of people that I don't feel are all my friends. Recently, I have been avoiding approaching girls that are in groups or if it's a girl I've recently met, I avoid approaching her while she's with a group of people I haven't met. When I've said before that I had social fears/anxiety, this is the biggest thing. Interacting with groups. I don't know why this is, but if anyone has any suggestions on how to completely get rid of this, I'd appreciate it. Specifically, in one of my classes this is case and when I get to class, I just don't know what to say when I get there to join the convo. Normally, I never think "oh, what do I say", again, it's only in these specific group situations where I don't feel like I'm friends with everyone in the group. Because of these weird feelings, I didn't even talk to a girl I wanted to in the class. I've talked with her before, but it's this group thing...it makes me feel weird and I don't like it.
In contrast to that, I saw a few girls that I have been wanting to talk to and I just so happen to see them today. I approach them and all of the interactions go well. I feel totally comfortable with this...but not with a group dynamic of mixed friends/people I haven't met.
Anyway, Sunday's on it's way.