Don't know where to begin - advice sought please.

[Jake2015]

Hi there,

I'll try and keep this as brief as possible. I've been wanting to change myself for a very long and have felt I'm running out of methods to try. It'll be no surprise to many of the people who come to this forum that the issues I have involve low self-esteem, poor self-image, insecurity, lack of confidence with people, even less confidence when in comes to women from a romantic point of view, social phobia anxiety... all the classics.

I bought myself some Sleep-phones recently with a view to attempting any kind of mind programming, whether they be binaural beats, affirmation videos, subliminal... searching led me here, which seems to be the largest resource. I've been reading posts over the last few evenings and I hope I can be forgiven by being completely overwhelmed by information and would like some guidance on the very idea of even beginning to use these Subliminals.

As of Monday 7 September I have been attempting to sleep with the masked ocean surf version of Absolute Self-Confidence. I have missed two days due to having to stay overnight elsewhere unexpectedly. I can't be certain how many hours the sound has been reaching my ears as I often wake up with the sleepphones round my neck. When I find this, I pull them back up again, but I don't know how effectual this has even been so far.

So... It's only been a week. Am I approaching this the wrong way - any suggestions? I went straight for Absolute Self-Confidence as I just assumed that was the way to go from the free subliminals. The Emotional Pain Relief & Healing aid subliminal also strikes me as something that would be relevant to me. How would I know which would have been the best to start with? If I get result with anything from this site then by all means I'd be willing to try some of the paid subliminals. I just don't know if I've even started well or how to continue, making sure these signals are actually getting to my brain.

Any advice would be welcome.

Hi

Welcome I read your post and wanted to help if I could. Im new here and you are already ahead of me in starting. I havent started any of the subliminals here as I have no equipment to but things will change very soon for me.

In all that time I have come here frequently to be inspired and learn and to keep my motivation up so I hope what little help I offer comes from some level of thought.

I cannot and perhaps am not the best person to advise you as to which to start with as there are far more qualified individuals here however what I have learnt from others is that if you want to see noticable change/effect/results to gain proof these subliminals work then start with ASC. If however you want to just get into it, not worried about seeing results fast but simply want to work at the core root and foundations of your issues then start with EPRHA.

The other way to perhaps do this would be start with ASC to see results then if you believe these work go ahead with either continuing with ASC or doing EPRHA or buying a subliminal.

In my case I was set to begin with EPRHA and for weeks was geared up for this but im going back to university, a sudden drastic and miraculous change to my thinking and life and thus after advice from others here decided its best I make uni my #1 goal and start with MLS (Maximum learning Speed).

What ive therefore learnt from this is that sometimes our choices are not based on what we think we need but at times what is needed by our lives at that time.

Regarding sleep phones. I was advised to get these and did but they caused me immense pain and discomfort. More than was worth it to me so sent them back. I have read reviews after this that revealed this is the case in very few cases as is the slipping of the sleep phones. If it slips it usually means you need a size smaller or that you either havent got it on right or that the sleep phones are just not right for you as they werent for me.

I will tell you therefore what im going to be doing.

I have bought wireless headphones. I got them 2 days ago. Bose Wireless over the ear Ae2w. On the ear arent for me as werent the sleep phones. I had some beats 2 by dr dre on ear and they caused me to have a hot head and ears - LITERALLY lol

I once at uni will start using these headphones though I doubt ill get the minimum 8hrs which is why these will be used to supplement the 8+hours I intend to get from the speakers I am going to buy called: AudioEngine A2+.

I hope this helps you