01-19-2014, 12:01 AM
Also, probably for the first time in my life, I've felt complete and non-needy without the presence of female/attention interest.
Paradoxically, feeling that way seems to attract female interest
This could send me on a tangent on how for most of my life I was seeking feminine approval, instead of genuine interest.
Meaning, I was hoping for women to validate and approve of me, instead of actually like me (and/or f*ck me).
This seems pretty clear to me right now, but it took a while to clear my mind about the topic.
For those of you into this, the second chakra is tied into these matters; a powerful affirmation would be "I am enough".
Finally, let me repost a wonderful statement found on this very forum, maybe on Ryan's journal:
I have no feelings of desperation or neediness.
I have my life, I'm sexy, so I really don't care.
Paradoxically, feeling that way seems to attract female interest
This could send me on a tangent on how for most of my life I was seeking feminine approval, instead of genuine interest.
Meaning, I was hoping for women to validate and approve of me, instead of actually like me (and/or f*ck me).
This seems pretty clear to me right now, but it took a while to clear my mind about the topic.
For those of you into this, the second chakra is tied into these matters; a powerful affirmation would be "I am enough".
Finally, let me repost a wonderful statement found on this very forum, maybe on Ryan's journal:
I have no feelings of desperation or neediness.
I have my life, I'm sexy, so I really don't care.
All fear is illusion.
