12-28-2013, 08:13 AM
Got another 3 hours worth of subs this afternoon, things are getting quite raunchy in my head at this time: I don't know how graphical I want to be, but this is a 18+ forum after all, so what the hell.
I had a couple of realization about sex: I already knew I'm quite insecure in this area, but now I see how to grow out of it, and possibly how to develop real "animal magnetism" - aka, Aura of Sexiness.
First, I saw that I have to become totally accepting of that part of me - the part which craves totally animalistic enjoyment of the body, with no emotions and strings attached, and no guilt what-so-ever.
(Oh, I think I forgot to mention: I'm a 23 year old straight male.)
Second, I had a brief spontaneous visualization of how a truly direct approach to a woman should look and feel like, when you are going "straight for the kill", leaving absolutely no doubts about the reason you're there.
This was accompanied by thoughts like, "You have to stand behind it 100%: sex is sex, it's a certainty, because if she says yes, she is getting f*cked hard. You have to be like a bullet, moving in a straight line towards its target: you have to make it damn clear that once it starts, there's no turning back, she's getting f*cked for sure".
This is similar to what I was thinking this morning, albeit less focused on emotional connection and more on pure sex.
Now, all of this may seem absolutely normal for a young man, but for me, to even resonate in these terms means pushing it and breaking out of my comfort zone.
That short visualization brought up some anxiety of course - like, "Holy sh*t, you have to be that direct? How am I gonna do this without coming off as [a pervert, threatening, whatever]?"
Things are starting to get fun here
I had a couple of realization about sex: I already knew I'm quite insecure in this area, but now I see how to grow out of it, and possibly how to develop real "animal magnetism" - aka, Aura of Sexiness.
First, I saw that I have to become totally accepting of that part of me - the part which craves totally animalistic enjoyment of the body, with no emotions and strings attached, and no guilt what-so-ever.
(Oh, I think I forgot to mention: I'm a 23 year old straight male.)
Second, I had a brief spontaneous visualization of how a truly direct approach to a woman should look and feel like, when you are going "straight for the kill", leaving absolutely no doubts about the reason you're there.
This was accompanied by thoughts like, "You have to stand behind it 100%: sex is sex, it's a certainty, because if she says yes, she is getting f*cked hard. You have to be like a bullet, moving in a straight line towards its target: you have to make it damn clear that once it starts, there's no turning back, she's getting f*cked for sure".
This is similar to what I was thinking this morning, albeit less focused on emotional connection and more on pure sex.
Now, all of this may seem absolutely normal for a young man, but for me, to even resonate in these terms means pushing it and breaking out of my comfort zone.
That short visualization brought up some anxiety of course - like, "Holy sh*t, you have to be that direct? How am I gonna do this without coming off as [a pervert, threatening, whatever]?"
Things are starting to get fun here
All fear is illusion.
