08-25-2025, 02:16 AM
Background
33 year old male. Single. Some previous sexual experiences including LTR but nothing for the last few years.
Listening Patterns
Hard Case Mode: 4 loops (140 mins (2 hours 20 mins) total), 3 days on, 2 days off, vol 8/16 iPhone
Days Listened
12.08.2025 - 21.08.2025 (Came from listening to X4A 6G with a 2-day break in between)
Results
-Started experiencing what I think was TID from FRM about 1 week before I started the programme. I became very conscious of my lower back and how inflexible it is. When in bed I would do deep breathing to try and fill it up and activate it. This would cause uncomfortable sensations. Previously I interpreted this as pain, as if I was doing something wrong and going to injure myself by trying to activate it too much. Now I found myself trying to speak to it, tell it it was part of me and that we wanted to reintegrate it back into my overall system. I have some basic knowledge of "parts work" from psychotherapy but I've never associated it with my lower back before. This focus on my lower back continued throughout my listen.
-Standard DMSI results that I got from previous versions are also present:
-Better looking facial expressions, finding myself having thoughts about how sexy I am
-Improved mood, happier day to day, less stressed, more fun and sociable
-Increased stares from women, particularly if they don't think I'm looking and I suddenly turn to look, they'll often get "caught" and quickly look away
-Voice deeper
-More relaxed
-Body would heat up sometimes, veins popping, particularly after a large meal
-Attended a wedding where I didn't know anyone. I found it much easier to socialise than usual, and found myself being automatically flirty with some women. They were covert in their interest. Also had some more overt interest from a couple of gay men, including one who invited me back to his room for drinks which I politely declined. I'm not gay but the interest from men shows baseline attractiveness increased.
So with all these results, why did I stop listening on 21.08.2025 after just over 1 week on the sub?
I suffer from some issues with weak erections sometimes. I'm not 100% on the cause, but it's interesting how the differences between X4A and DMSI seem to impact it:
-X4A gives me stronger erections
-DMSI gives me weaker erections (this was the case on previous versions also)
Because I started to feel the lack of erection ability from DMSI, I panicked and swapped back to X4A. As what's the point in being sexually attractive, seducing a woman, and then when it comes time for sex you're unable to perform?
I have some theories. X4A is a sexual arousal aura so makes sense it would help me with sexual arousal myself. DMSI is a sexually attractive aura. This may be actually taking the energy I would use for erections and instead using it up on making me "sexy" instead, at the expense of sexual arousal energy?
I was hoping the change to use for "genetic males only" might change this for me but it doesn't seem to have been the case so far.
However, after reading some of the latest posts from Shannon, I've decided to go back to DMSI. I want to see what the FRM can do for me if I give it enough time, as it was clearly doing something. I'll just live with the erection issues while it's doing it's work, and who knows, perhaps it's somehow fear related and this would help me to clear up that issue in the long-term.
Tl
R:
DMSI works for me. It's worked for me since v1, in that it makes me more sexually attractive and approachable to women. But I think I am quite a unique case when it comes this issue of erection strength.
I'll keep going and report back with any updates!
Sniper feedback / questions for Shannon:
-I get confused about how the sexually attractive aura works, and what kind of results we're supposed to expect, particularly in regards to the sniper. With v1 of DMSI (Aura of Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G), there was no sniper, but I'd see blatant results from people in my vicinity e.g. sex flushes, complaints of heat, blatant IOIs from them. I'd also feel and see the aura on myself: sunburn face, breathing hot, heat in forearms with veins popping.
Then ever since the sniper was introduced in later versions, I still feel the aura myself sometimes, but I don't see those blatant effects on others. I just get increased stares and milder IOIs. It's like I'm only ever activating the baseline aura and not the snipers. Could you help clarify what we should be feeling and and the effects we should be seeing on others when the sniper kicks in for DMSI?
To contrast, when I run X4A, I feel very clearly when the sniper starts hitting someone. I feel strong vibrations/tingling in my genitals/root, burning sensation in my upper thighs and heat in the face. I also clearly see the effects on the person being sniped in terms of sex flushing, wagging lags, etc. So X4A sniper is obvious when it's kicking in to me... but DMSI's I'm not sure what to look for or what to expect. If it's not arousing them (or is it supposed to be?) then what is it doing when it snipes versus when they're just reacting to your baseline sexy aura? What does it mean to snipe someone with your "sexual attractiveness" if the goal isn't to sexually arouse them? Why would we not want to attract and arouse at the same time if that's possible?
Like I noticed you saw people sex flushing around you with a few seconds listen of this version. I saw that on v1 DMSI (AOSI), I see it on X4A, but for some reason I don't see it with the later versions of DMSI.
Wishlist product (probably won't happen, but can't hurt to ask!)
-Sexual arousal sniper aura, snipes everyone according to how attractive you find them, but not telling them what to do with their arousal to preserve free will / relationships / etc (same as X4A)
-No auto seduction / auto pilot (so can work for couples too)
-Passive sexually attractive / arousal aura that focuses on attractiveness but with the caveat you have enough sexual arousal energy built up first that you're able to perform sexually
-Other attractiveness amplifiers (body language, voice, celeb effect)
-Enhance self-esteem, self-respect etc. (Goal #2 of DMSI)
-FRM focused on being as sexually attractive / arousing as possible
Hope this is helpful in some way, and thanks for the free release for early DMSI'ers, Shannon.
33 year old male. Single. Some previous sexual experiences including LTR but nothing for the last few years.
Listening Patterns
Hard Case Mode: 4 loops (140 mins (2 hours 20 mins) total), 3 days on, 2 days off, vol 8/16 iPhone
Days Listened
12.08.2025 - 21.08.2025 (Came from listening to X4A 6G with a 2-day break in between)
Results
-Started experiencing what I think was TID from FRM about 1 week before I started the programme. I became very conscious of my lower back and how inflexible it is. When in bed I would do deep breathing to try and fill it up and activate it. This would cause uncomfortable sensations. Previously I interpreted this as pain, as if I was doing something wrong and going to injure myself by trying to activate it too much. Now I found myself trying to speak to it, tell it it was part of me and that we wanted to reintegrate it back into my overall system. I have some basic knowledge of "parts work" from psychotherapy but I've never associated it with my lower back before. This focus on my lower back continued throughout my listen.
-Standard DMSI results that I got from previous versions are also present:
-Better looking facial expressions, finding myself having thoughts about how sexy I am
-Improved mood, happier day to day, less stressed, more fun and sociable
-Increased stares from women, particularly if they don't think I'm looking and I suddenly turn to look, they'll often get "caught" and quickly look away
-Voice deeper
-More relaxed
-Body would heat up sometimes, veins popping, particularly after a large meal
-Attended a wedding where I didn't know anyone. I found it much easier to socialise than usual, and found myself being automatically flirty with some women. They were covert in their interest. Also had some more overt interest from a couple of gay men, including one who invited me back to his room for drinks which I politely declined. I'm not gay but the interest from men shows baseline attractiveness increased.
So with all these results, why did I stop listening on 21.08.2025 after just over 1 week on the sub?
I suffer from some issues with weak erections sometimes. I'm not 100% on the cause, but it's interesting how the differences between X4A and DMSI seem to impact it:
-X4A gives me stronger erections
-DMSI gives me weaker erections (this was the case on previous versions also)
Because I started to feel the lack of erection ability from DMSI, I panicked and swapped back to X4A. As what's the point in being sexually attractive, seducing a woman, and then when it comes time for sex you're unable to perform?
I have some theories. X4A is a sexual arousal aura so makes sense it would help me with sexual arousal myself. DMSI is a sexually attractive aura. This may be actually taking the energy I would use for erections and instead using it up on making me "sexy" instead, at the expense of sexual arousal energy?
I was hoping the change to use for "genetic males only" might change this for me but it doesn't seem to have been the case so far.
However, after reading some of the latest posts from Shannon, I've decided to go back to DMSI. I want to see what the FRM can do for me if I give it enough time, as it was clearly doing something. I'll just live with the erection issues while it's doing it's work, and who knows, perhaps it's somehow fear related and this would help me to clear up that issue in the long-term.
Tl

DMSI works for me. It's worked for me since v1, in that it makes me more sexually attractive and approachable to women. But I think I am quite a unique case when it comes this issue of erection strength.
I'll keep going and report back with any updates!
Sniper feedback / questions for Shannon:
-I get confused about how the sexually attractive aura works, and what kind of results we're supposed to expect, particularly in regards to the sniper. With v1 of DMSI (Aura of Sexual Irresistibility 5.5G), there was no sniper, but I'd see blatant results from people in my vicinity e.g. sex flushes, complaints of heat, blatant IOIs from them. I'd also feel and see the aura on myself: sunburn face, breathing hot, heat in forearms with veins popping.
Then ever since the sniper was introduced in later versions, I still feel the aura myself sometimes, but I don't see those blatant effects on others. I just get increased stares and milder IOIs. It's like I'm only ever activating the baseline aura and not the snipers. Could you help clarify what we should be feeling and and the effects we should be seeing on others when the sniper kicks in for DMSI?
To contrast, when I run X4A, I feel very clearly when the sniper starts hitting someone. I feel strong vibrations/tingling in my genitals/root, burning sensation in my upper thighs and heat in the face. I also clearly see the effects on the person being sniped in terms of sex flushing, wagging lags, etc. So X4A sniper is obvious when it's kicking in to me... but DMSI's I'm not sure what to look for or what to expect. If it's not arousing them (or is it supposed to be?) then what is it doing when it snipes versus when they're just reacting to your baseline sexy aura? What does it mean to snipe someone with your "sexual attractiveness" if the goal isn't to sexually arouse them? Why would we not want to attract and arouse at the same time if that's possible?
Like I noticed you saw people sex flushing around you with a few seconds listen of this version. I saw that on v1 DMSI (AOSI), I see it on X4A, but for some reason I don't see it with the later versions of DMSI.
Wishlist product (probably won't happen, but can't hurt to ask!)
-Sexual arousal sniper aura, snipes everyone according to how attractive you find them, but not telling them what to do with their arousal to preserve free will / relationships / etc (same as X4A)
-No auto seduction / auto pilot (so can work for couples too)
-Passive sexually attractive / arousal aura that focuses on attractiveness but with the caveat you have enough sexual arousal energy built up first that you're able to perform sexually
-Other attractiveness amplifiers (body language, voice, celeb effect)
-Enhance self-esteem, self-respect etc. (Goal #2 of DMSI)
-FRM focused on being as sexually attractive / arousing as possible
Hope this is helpful in some way, and thanks for the free release for early DMSI'ers, Shannon.