(12-29-2016, 08:30 PM)eternity Wrote: Also, the thick black girl at the troll booth took her sweet time in taking my $5 bill. But once she noticed my aura, she became a sweet girl, wishing me a wonderful night, and made it a point to touch my hand when she gave me my change. I thought she was attractive, although not entirely my type, but I was so angry I just wanted to hurry up and gtfo but I immediately thought about sargemaximus and his hate energy theory, lol. I see you, sarge!
When I get some time I'll write more about the "hate" energy and getting women, it's not really about the hate it at all it's because most guys put their focus on women and really aren't present or authentic with them. When you've got rage inside you, or better yet a "lifes purpose" you really don't have the time or the energy to focus on which women are worth checking out or what she's thinking of you. You don't have time or care what you should say next, what your next move should be, if that 6 month old tip from some PUA blog is still good advice or if it's practical in this particular situation. etc..
Hate occupies your time and mental energy the same way and as long as you don't look like a freshly released convict it but maybe a slight scowl or bored looking face it makes you look like you're confident, on a mission, and have much bigger things to worry about than what some random women thinks of you or worrying about if you'll receive any external validation.
The way of the superior man can go into much more detail better than I can but the TLDR version: stop seeking attention and validation from women, pay attention to and validate yourself and your goals and the women will do what they're wired to - follow your lead.
I'm sure we've all seen this many times either in ourselves or other people, guys get a girlfriend they're happy with and validates them, therefore they get "permission" to validate themselves through her validation and women start coming out of nowhere. Or they go through a bad breakup and swear off women and the women finally manage to pull him back in. Or you're out with your boys just having fun and dicking around with 0 regard for getting any action and the women make themselves available to you over the guys trying to pick them up.
I can't help notice that with each passing version of DMSI it's getting more and more effective at attraction, while also getting more and more effective in getting guys to be more ambitious in their own life rather than focusing on women. I know the aura is helping, but that type of inner game is absolute gold to women and surely that's responsible for some part of the results.
This is what women mean when they say they are attracted to confidence - a confident guy is one who's self validated, self fulfilled, and still going after something better in life whatever that be career, relationships, or spiritual related it doesn't really matter - as long as your biggest goal in life isn't them.
