DMSI 3.1

[Duke.Togo]

How about for you Alex, what have your experiences been like with women since starting DMSI?

My experiences have been non-existent, unfortunately. It feels like those who already know me want to let themselves become more sexually attracted to me but keep trying to slot me into a provider role. This has definitely happened with all the Russian girls I knew pre-DMSI and a couple non-Russian ones as well. Those who have first met me since listening to DMSI seem to express attraction in different ways (I've seen quite a few pretzels from decent looking women on the train) but hold themselves back for whatever reason. It's also often been the case, both pre-DMSI and since, that even if an interaction with a girl was good and a "next time" was essentially assured they would always be looking for something, some excuse, to back away, in which case the only logical thing to do is next them.

I do go out during the day but to save money while I'm still job searching I rarely leave the neighborhood, and admittedly I'm in a situation right now where I can't afford to do anything about new women showing interest at the moment, but I would hope that I don't have a self-sabotaging mindset about "not being good enough due to being poor" or similar.

OK, this response is coming off my mobile, so if it's a little disjointed, that's why.

I think before anything further can happen, you need to first realize what you want to happen with a woman. Are you looking to start a relationship or do you want to get laid. Get really clear on that.

Second thing is, learn to value yourself to your own standards. If people aren't going to agree with it, that's on them, but you need to know your own self worth. No matter what you do in life, whether it's getting a job or laying a woman, it comes down to you. What you convey to the rest of the world is ultimately who you are internally. Live fearlessly, and always be ready to run into a fire. Believe it or not, you live a lot longer when you're ready to die.

And that brings me to my last point, you will die one day. There won't be an Alex forever. At the end of your line, how much do you want to regret? Whatever I do, whether it's in business, friendship, women, or just life, the one question I ask myself is, if I don't go for it, will I one day down the line look back and regret this one?

You might think you'll always say yes, but you won't. I think you'll find yourself saying yes to only a few things. What happens though when you continually ask yourself that question is, you just end up doing things. You take more chances. You live more life.

And when you're too busy living life, you forget about things like being too poor to ask a girl out.

A woman needs passion, not cash. Be the guy that takes her to the heights of her own imagination and pleasure. And continuously be that guy. And I guarantee you, you'll have more women than you'll know what to do with.

The same goes for work man. Take that approach to everything in your life, and you'll find yourself in some pretty amazing places.