07-26-2016, 09:41 PM
Humans are social beings. To put it more bluntly, herd animals. Being outside the safety of the herd is only something a true leader is capable of handling for very long.
That, and humans are designed to mate, and bond with their mates.
Most people don't ever realize that they seek their "other half" because they are looking for self fulfillment in the wrong direction. The fully self realized person has no "other half". They are self supplying, and able to have someone else in their lives; but the awareness of this, and the journey, are challenging and most people are neither ready nor willing to try.
The result is seeking happiness and security in someone else. And/or the herd.
That, and humans are designed to mate, and bond with their mates.
Most people don't ever realize that they seek their "other half" because they are looking for self fulfillment in the wrong direction. The fully self realized person has no "other half". They are self supplying, and able to have someone else in their lives; but the awareness of this, and the journey, are challenging and most people are neither ready nor willing to try.
The result is seeking happiness and security in someone else. And/or the herd.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!