(07-14-2016, 04:04 PM)Steven Wrote: Shannon,
After a meal to help me think more clearly, here are some of my thoughts.
“If there is some sort of subconscious block for you, 2.2 will get you past it, given enough use. It will also get your subconscious to help you achieve the goals of the program.”
Yes, it is VERY possible it is unconscious because I am stumped and that to me almost always suggests the problem is unconscious.
“Woman wise, what I think is going on for you is that one of two possibilities exist.”
“1. You're misinterpreting signals.”
Possible, but unlikely.
“2. There is something you're doing wrong after interesting them enough to give you signals.”
Much more possible, and I would say fairly likely. See below.
“Of course I don't have enough information to say beyond that, but one or both of those two seems likely as an explanation to me. Females are tricksy. They don't always make sense from a logical point of view. Logic says, "If X and Y then Z." Chick logic says, "Q! No, B! No, M! No, U!"”
That makes perfect sense. Perhaps I would go so far as to say I'm being too logical and doing something wrong because I'm being logical.
“You are trying to understand an illogical creature with logic. The only logical way to do that is to understand that illogical creatures do what makes no logical sense! “
Okay, Shannon. This next paragraphs I promise are my clumsy, inarticulate way of trying to sincerely further understand: given that they are illogical creatures and do what makes no logical sense, what am I supposed to do? Act unpredictable? Act emotional? Ask them out and then take it back immediately? Tell them I'd love to go out with them but I can't?
Also, what does your model say about handling chick logic in such a way they act in such a way to fulfill this goals of DSMI?
I'm not Shannon but I can answer that last question for you. Women are emotional and "illogical". Because of this they like a strong masculine man who is present and not in his head. That's why high self esteem is so important, it is alpha to be strong/masculine/present & beta for a man to be overly emotional & insecure & mentally scattered in social situations.
They want that stability from a man because they themselves are not emotionally stable & allot of the time subconsciously & consciously they feel safe when they are with a man who is emotionally stable / calm & that's when they are most at ease and happy.
You don't need to really act a certain way to get chicks. You could be a high energy, fun loving social butterfly & get women or you could be a quite strong alpha masculine character not silly or overly extroverted and still pick up chicks.
It's Situational & depends on the women. But it's best to be however you are naturally and not try to be someone you're not. It's the inner game that gets women & your body language / eye contact.
There is exceptions to everything however it's not set in stone.
