Clearing the Debris with EHPRA v5

[Shannon]

Forgiving others is hard to do because most people misunderstand the goal. They think forgive means to accept bad treatment, and give it a pass, let it continue. But forgiveness is nothing of the sort. It's un-hooking yourself from the self destructive negative response that holding on to the past, holding on to negativity and anger and hate results in.

Forgiveness is not for them who did you wrong, it's for the forgiver to free themselves and better themselves, allow themselves to make positive changes and improve their own lives, instead of being stuck on that point in the past that will not change (since it's in the past) and stop killing themselves with negativity.

Understanding that makes it much, much easier to forgive. But you do not then allow others to do you wrong; learn to prevent them from doing you wrong, while not allowing yourself to get caught up in self destructive responses like holding a grudge, anger, hate and the rest.

You now have proof that E5 works, and I am very pleased to see that you are making such important changes for yourself.