03-11-2015, 05:30 AM
(03-10-2015, 10:31 PM)TheChosenOne Wrote:(03-08-2015, 11:36 AM)orange blossom Wrote:(03-08-2015, 10:35 AM)Fonzy3 Wrote: Something that you can jot down in your gratitude journal is that you've already become more approachable. Goodluck!
not really, actually I am trying really hard not to give you shit for that remark but I do feel more and more the need to stay away from this forum.
Stop giving me "compliments" as if I was such a bitch before and "improved", acting like you are such a gentleman yourself and above me.
Maybe I would have been nicer from the very start if you didnt randomly send me comments about your ***** crotch. And if some others on here didnt look down on me for not being a goddamn *****.
So sick of this elite attitude some of you guys have on here.
I was never unapproachable... I become unapproachable if you try to control me or look down on me with elite *****. I am not buying it.
Starting to wonder if all women get this shit treatment on this forum.
I will come back to give updates on the subs if I notice any big changes but besides that I am done with you guys.
I agree with her 100%. In personal development, and especially in dealing with women, you shouldn't give feedback unless it is specifically requested. (Don't try to "fix" or "change" other people)
If a person asks for suggestions, insights, or a testimonial about a specific topic or circumstance, only then you should give them "counsel" or "suggestions"...while understanding that the (end) decision is theirs to make on their own.
The funny thing I see is a lot of people posting about things that they have limited, zero experience, or knowledge about, with a very strong sense of certainty (superiority) towards other people.
This is one of the reason's I don't post my journal. There is a reason Shannon's Journal(s) is private (only he can post in it). Lol
Yeah if its possible I would like a journal only I could post in.
Because this is bullshit.