06-03-2016, 02:00 PM
I appreciate what you, Mr Anderson, and apollolux are saying, but I'm not sure. Guys can also sex-zone us! But then again, I've had a couple of guys when we were just having sex suddenly propose and want babies and stuff and very serious about it so that CAN happen (not that I was even trying to get that I wasn't)
I mean you might both be right, anyway I'm thinking over what you both said and what everyone has said in reply. And of course THANK you for replying Mr Anderson, apollolux, 4Kingdoms, cashmerecat & dweller94. And all the replies are very helpful!!
OK I've actually taken on board some of this for starters at least and I've stopped doing this sub for now but started doing the Emotional Healing and Pain Relief subliminal.
I might start a new journal about that.
I think I've noticed a couple of little responses in me to that & it will be interesting to see if it affects this - my love life - or not but either way, I think it's a subliminal I can really benefit from.
I think I agree with you with what most of you have said about pushing sex away so much and what you resist persists to the point that it COULD WELL be the reason I've been attracting guys who just want sex in the main.
Mr Anderson, you're right I DON'T want just a friendship not a relationship, that's very true. Some people have that, sexless relationships but I'd really rather NOT be one of them!!
In terms of do I change my stance on when to have sex, guys I don't know this is something I need to think about a lot more and thank you so much for all the perspectives. I'm bearing in mind all that's been said, and it is extremely helpful.
Either way, I think the EHPR sounds like a good thing for me to focus on for various reasons.
Cashmerecat, yes, I'm curious what changes you saw too, doing the EHPR and then returning to this - anyway what you said is encouraging and helpful!!
Wow, again, sorry to sound gushy but thanks you guys for all your input, it's really helpful and appreciated!
I mean you might both be right, anyway I'm thinking over what you both said and what everyone has said in reply. And of course THANK you for replying Mr Anderson, apollolux, 4Kingdoms, cashmerecat & dweller94. And all the replies are very helpful!!
OK I've actually taken on board some of this for starters at least and I've stopped doing this sub for now but started doing the Emotional Healing and Pain Relief subliminal.
I might start a new journal about that.
I think I've noticed a couple of little responses in me to that & it will be interesting to see if it affects this - my love life - or not but either way, I think it's a subliminal I can really benefit from.
I think I agree with you with what most of you have said about pushing sex away so much and what you resist persists to the point that it COULD WELL be the reason I've been attracting guys who just want sex in the main.
Mr Anderson, you're right I DON'T want just a friendship not a relationship, that's very true. Some people have that, sexless relationships but I'd really rather NOT be one of them!!
In terms of do I change my stance on when to have sex, guys I don't know this is something I need to think about a lot more and thank you so much for all the perspectives. I'm bearing in mind all that's been said, and it is extremely helpful.
Either way, I think the EHPR sounds like a good thing for me to focus on for various reasons.
Cashmerecat, yes, I'm curious what changes you saw too, doing the EHPR and then returning to this - anyway what you said is encouraging and helpful!!
Wow, again, sorry to sound gushy but thanks you guys for all your input, it's really helpful and appreciated!