(03-19-2017, 11:24 AM)Athena Wrote: Darkness, Nox, Appololux, sw72hw
THANK YOU SO SO SO much for your kind replies, I really appreciate them!!!!
You're welcome.
(03-19-2017, 11:23 AM)Athena Wrote: Sometimes with offline guys I get ignored although I DO on occasion catch a guy on the train staring at me!
I suppose gorgeous women can't get attention from every men. If you catch a guy staring you on occasion, I suppose you are quite attractive. (Now, I am tempted to ask you to share your pictures. LOL.)
(03-19-2017, 11:23 AM)Athena Wrote: It tends to be more like the wanting sex one.
But unfortunately, I've even been on two dates with guys from online but we had a meal date and in BOTH cases they ended up suddenly masturbating in their car and begging me for sex!!! (Which they DID NOT get!) i was puzzled cos I was dressed VERY conservatively and I don't think I did anything sexual on the date! I kissed one of them when we went for a walk past these canals, but just kissed! He started it! And with the other one I did NOTHING, didn't even touch his hand, no innuendo, long skirt, long top, it's a mystery!!
Uhh, I hope that wasn't your first date. If it was on a first date, that's crazy, and they are taking it a little too far. (It also indicates that they totally failed to consider you. Sure, there are girls who probably like those stuff, but you don't, and they failed to recognize that about you. Besides, it was more like they were only focused on their needs/desires while completely neglecting you.) Nevertheless, I'm sorry that it happened. Guys should realize that such action can be considered a sexual harassment, especially if it caused trauma or similar sort to the affected person.
Your story reminds me of a woman I've seen on online/Facebook. She's who can be considered as a MILF, who's probably in late 40s to maybe in 50s. She also has a couple of children, as far as I am aware. She was really something special. Sure, she was hot, but she wasn't the hottest or most gorgeous woman I've seen in my life (off/online). Yet, there was something about her. She radiated this aura or some sort of sexual energy flowing that when I saw a few of her pictures, I couldn't help myself, but to release the sexual pressure that has built. I typically don't get that aroused by looking at pictures (if I get even aroused), nor I have ever masturbated to a picture. Yeah, she was wearing something more revealing (elegant but reveling dress, and some bikini pics.), but she wasn't naked. Also, I don't usually dig MILF, so I suppose this woman was an exception.
Given that you have had several of those experiences, I wonder if you may be similar to this woman. You may be radiating so much sexual aura or energy. Have you done any sexual meditation or something similar? I am only asking it, because the woman I mentioned, as far as I am aware, has practices many sexual meditations or similar activities (and she's very opened about sex).
Nonetheless, I think the guys have misbehaved, especially given that you weren't giving any hints about sex. (At the same time, a part of me sympathize with the guys (assuming that you are similar to that woman) as I have no idea if I would have been able to behave better than these guys if I went out on a date with that woman. Still, it wasn't right that they behaved that way, especially since it made you feel bad, and I still believe that they should have behaved better.) It is a good example that guys should be more considerate about their dates, and try to make sense and be considerate of their wants/needs. (It is hard stuff though. I hope you understand that.)
I am not sure if this is going to be helpful, but try to take it in a more positive light: you're very sexy that guys can't resist you, nor can maintain their control. I understand that how it can be very challenging given your experiences, but try to stay positive and build build confidence rather than take it negative.
Again, I hope that you meet your perfect romantic lover soon.
