It's not that it 'turns you into an asshole'.
It's that it makes you angry at mistreatment or manipulation that you either weren't aware of or that you were aware of but were ignoring. And that's part of you starting to stand up for yourself.
I got alot of that on the earlier versions, but the anger was what got me to stand up for myself where before I wouldn't. It built up enough to do so.
Also some people may get uncomfortable with the change and try to resist it and that can cause some conflict. But that can be part of any change.
It's that it makes you angry at mistreatment or manipulation that you either weren't aware of or that you were aware of but were ignoring. And that's part of you starting to stand up for yourself.
I got alot of that on the earlier versions, but the anger was what got me to stand up for myself where before I wouldn't. It built up enough to do so.
Also some people may get uncomfortable with the change and try to resist it and that can cause some conflict. But that can be part of any change.
