10-15-2021, 11:30 PM
(08-17-2021, 12:09 PM)GreekGod22 Wrote: Mark Manson is very much wrong on his whole concept of vulnerability and emotional connection. Women are attracted purely to dominance & pre-selection.
Emotional connection does not equal attraction.
And women do have casual sex a lot, and sleep with a guy without needing a connection. They are far from being angels.
I used to believe there are 2 types of women:I was very wrong and naïve thinking this. All women are attracted to the same traits in a man: dominance, preselection, social skill / competence, looks.
- shallow women, who have more casual sex and go for "bad boys"
- higher quality women, who don't do hookups and need an emotional connection with a guy, just like in Hollywood romantic movies.
I can assure you that you can connect on a much deeper level with a woman by opening her up sexually and make her be comfortable sharing / acting her biggest fantasy with you.
And women develop emotions after the sex has happened. You don't attract her by connecting with her emotionally.
Forgive me for being scepticle but as soon as someone writes that something is based "purely" on something else and isn't talking as but chemistry I find it as being a narrowed down perspective of reality. I believe that women surely can be attracted to dominant-able men with strength. But women are also good responders to developed awareness, humor and honesty. And not the "honesty" that is based on getting something from them but honesty that is based on non-neediness. That kind of honesty is scary for a man as it puts him on the line, and can communicate as much bravery as a man able to take charge in a leadership position.