Good things to strive for as Male

[Superbad12]

Conveying attractive personality
just posting a quick list of traits to be attractive as a male.

decisiveness, resourcefulness, dominance, confidence, fearlessness, standing out (be unique)

creating your own reality. Seeing the world through your own eyes, (deciding for yourself in the rare case that society or outside influences are wrong.)

Feel free to add to this list.

[apollolux]

Assertiveness is a good one, sometimes confused with confidence and decisiveness but definitely related to both.

Adventurous is one I've been working on as well; this is related to taking (sometimes calculated) risks and stepping outside comfort zones, as well as being willing to fail on the path to success. Fearlessness is pretty much directly related to this one.

Passionate is probably my favorite. This needs to be tempered somewhat, though, as the intensity that would inevitably be associated with it is usually polarizing.

Streetwise is one that seems to be underrated, as I've seen more men be successful by being "street smart" and social than being "book smart" and intellectual. This probably also has to do with confidence and passion.

[Superbad12]

I definitely prefer times in my life where I feel connected to a high purpose. I'll describe the feeling Pulled towards a goal. VS. lacking passion, it's more up-hill (couldn't think of better description). So, passion for me is like the source of success, when I look back at certain accomplishments.