07-20-2021, 09:54 AM
(07-20-2021, 09:33 AM)Shannon Wrote: I haven't read those books in a long time, but I don't remember reading those things in Alexander's book when I read it.
At this point, I'm expecting to do away with book recommendations for the next version, but it's still a long way out.
I see, looking forward to it and sounds promising that you expect it to be powerful enough to help the user develop in the right directions without conscious interference.
Just FYI, here are the exact quotes that at least made me a bit weary reading them. And I was wrong about the eye-contact part as it was directed to talking to other guys, still I find it hard to see that a guy with a solid sense of self-esteem would need to overthink his eye-contact with other men. This book provide much advice just like this, doing small things that I feel are borderline manipulation and projection rather than working on developing a good self-esteem and let other things follow from that. Double your dating is much more aligned in doing that.
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By the way, be careful with condoms. The sight of a Trojan wrapper in your hand can snap a woman out of her horny state by triggering that portion of her brain that's been programmed to think sex is "bad."
It’s important to use condoms, however, in order to be safe from disease and pregnancy, so try to put on your condom fast, without making a big scene out of it.
What I do is put on the condom while I’m eating the woman out (and she's too distracted to notice what I'm doing with my hands), so that when she’s ready for me to enter her, everything goes smoothly
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The only time you should make eye contact w/ a guy is when you're saying something to him. When the other guy is talking, don't look at him much, instead looking off to the side. (Ever dealt with a CEO? That's exactly what they do when it comes to eye contact.)
