Not much going on, frankly. Kinda weird.
Had a little resistance going to the gym, but not much. I'm going for myself, no one else. That got me there easily.
Definitely a few chicks that were attractive enough to push my Horny button. This one chick, great body - but with the face of a friend (you know those girls you're friends with, but you always wonder what it'd be like to have sex with them?) - started to fidget with her shirt, and then began using it as a towel to wipe her face. Each time, it exposed her midsection. If she every glanced my direction, I didn't notice.
Another girl who came in near the end of my workout, plain by my standards, was staring at me in a very open way. I think she may have done that, anyway. The average looking ones always seem to be more willing to openly check out guys they're attracted to.
I feel like being over-analytical and living in my head all the time is what has psyched me out from being more of an action-oriented person when it comes to getting out and about. Adopting more of a "why not" attitude, rather than "why" attitude is beneficial to getting me in gear.
Other than that, my observation of myself today is just that I think I'm pretty unapproachable. My wife's best friend's husband was in the gym today, and when I noticed him I could tell he was looking to see if I was paying attention so he could slide out of the door without saying "Hi!" That's exactly what he did. I don't get it, because we actually have a lot in common, and he's always commented or liked things on my Facebook. Every time we speak, though, he puts off a nervous energy I can feel. He's an EMT/firefighter, and spends a lot of time around traditional alpha-types, so I don't know why he would feel uncomfortable around me.
Anyway, I always had way more interactions with women (in general) when they could that see that I'm open, social, and friendly.
EDIT: I suppose I should mention that I only had a pre-workout (no calories) before going to the gym, so no food since last night.
Had a little resistance going to the gym, but not much. I'm going for myself, no one else. That got me there easily.
Definitely a few chicks that were attractive enough to push my Horny button. This one chick, great body - but with the face of a friend (you know those girls you're friends with, but you always wonder what it'd be like to have sex with them?) - started to fidget with her shirt, and then began using it as a towel to wipe her face. Each time, it exposed her midsection. If she every glanced my direction, I didn't notice.
Another girl who came in near the end of my workout, plain by my standards, was staring at me in a very open way. I think she may have done that, anyway. The average looking ones always seem to be more willing to openly check out guys they're attracted to.
I feel like being over-analytical and living in my head all the time is what has psyched me out from being more of an action-oriented person when it comes to getting out and about. Adopting more of a "why not" attitude, rather than "why" attitude is beneficial to getting me in gear.
Other than that, my observation of myself today is just that I think I'm pretty unapproachable. My wife's best friend's husband was in the gym today, and when I noticed him I could tell he was looking to see if I was paying attention so he could slide out of the door without saying "Hi!" That's exactly what he did. I don't get it, because we actually have a lot in common, and he's always commented or liked things on my Facebook. Every time we speak, though, he puts off a nervous energy I can feel. He's an EMT/firefighter, and spends a lot of time around traditional alpha-types, so I don't know why he would feel uncomfortable around me.
Anyway, I always had way more interactions with women (in general) when they could that see that I'm open, social, and friendly.
EDIT: I suppose I should mention that I only had a pre-workout (no calories) before going to the gym, so no food since last night.
