Aces High: A Maverick Journal

[Benjamin]

If you're just starting Maverick and worrying about relationships or attracting women, I hate to put it this way, but you're wasting your time running this sub.  Maverick is a journey about self discovery.  That means that dating often becomes the furthest thing down the list because this is more about putting yourself first rather than trying to find balance and equilibrium with someone else.  This is also why the warnings were plastered at the very beginning of the description for the product regarding what people in relationships should expect when running this sub. 

Choose one.  Unleash your full potential or try to amend yourself to be what some other woman wants you to be right now.  There is no both when it comes to Maverick. 

Maybe it's just me, but I don't really buy into this "you have to forget about relationships to achieve your highest self", this idea that pursuing a relationship is not productive or not worthy for a man, and instead working yourself to death, or the so-called "grinding", is somewhat a more worthy pursuit. Or the fact that you need to stay single to focus on self-improvement. Seems like a selfish and narcissistic pursuit.

To me it seems weak to come onto a journal of a man who is working to achieve his full potential, completely misunderstand his points, and then try to attack him as being 'selfish' and 'narcissistic'.

None of those points you made is what is being said here. It's instead to not make sex and women your sole focus because I can tell you from my own experience that is fairly hollow in the end, as you grow in yourself you will start to naturally attract women and people into your life who are like minded and it's not coming from obsessing about it.

This almost reminds me of women constantly posting on social media about 'narcissists' when generally it means they wouldn't put up with her shit that she kept throwing at them like she did all her ex's who she also calls 'narcissists'.