About's WM2.0 Journal

[Shannon]

Ok so I've been finished with wm2.0 for a while. I haven't had any real results other than a lot of self reflection/introspection/whatever you want to call it. It's a bit disappointing since it was a lot of money.

Since finishing it, i have taken steps to get out there and be more social. I think I'm finally ready to do that as a person. Now that I'm actually doing this, I want to know if I should run it a second time. Shannon, you said if I feel like I got what I wanted out of the program I should just run the refresher stage, but truthfully I don't feel like I got the whole package out of what I paid for so I want to make this work.

Here's a few things that I have come to terms with myself:

I am working on my fear of rejection

I am working on becoming a better flirt, this is an area that I need improvement on because I do find myself asking "how am i suppose to flirt?"

I have somewhat of an ego - I don't want to date women who are heavier than I am. I'm a bit shallow in that regards because I know that there can be some amazing women that I would never consider dating, just like how my ex had an amazing body but wasn't an amazing person to me. It's not also weight, but how pretty a person is as well since I feel like I should only be dating those that not only am I attracted to, but I would think people around me (friends family) will find attractive as well - a "trophy girl."

So yeah... I have a few things I'm working on. I want to get my dating life in my control and not rely on luck. Should I run through wm2 again?

My advice is that you will do well to run the whole program again. Also, on shallowness, etc...

You must find your own balance between responding because of social brainwashing in the direction of "only find skinny women attractive" and "feel guilty for not finding fat girls attractive". If your "love map" says you are naturally attracted to Type X females, then it doesn't matter what anyone else says, does it? For you, Type X is attractive, and anyone trying to tell you otherwise is overstepping their bounds. You must accept and own your own choices and desires.

On the other hand, if you meet a woman who is not your type, and you automatically write her off, you may miss out on a lot of unexpectedly wonderful experiences and people. It has happened several times that I have ended up finding myself surprised along those lines. Don't artificially limit yourself, but also don't let other people try to guilt/shame/fear you into going after women who aren't your type just because they'd rather be lazy than healthy.