Unfortunately no. Something I am still wanting to improve on.
Edit: texting operations have possibly failed. She replied, however I dislike texting because I never know what to say. I prefer phone conversations because I don't have time to think about what to say, it just comes out of my mouth. I guess I'll leave the conversation here and if anyone has feedback...
Also noted, I am not really sure how to "hit on people" or even how to banter or flirt...
Me: Hi ___ how's it going?
Her: Sorry about that, I was on a long distance call with a friend! Good to hear from you. Having a good day so far, how's yours?
Me: I was super anxious all day! oh man, i had a job interview last week and I was supposed to hear back today.
Her: oh no! don't give up hope yet, they might just not have their act togethe. I hope you hear from them soon! waiting is the worst.
Me: Yeah I'm sure I'll hear from them soon but I was wondering what your schedule was like this week?
Her: Things are really up in the air for me because my sister is only home for amonth so I'm trying to maximize time. But if she ends up having plans that don't involve me I can let you know, just can't make any promises until late july.
At this point I was dumbfounded and didn't know what to say so I just said "oh right, definitely have to spend time with her. any plans to watch fireworks on the 4th"
And she hasn't replied since. I know this isn't a dating forum but that's what happened. I feel as though I need to get this out so that I can at least get feedback? If this is a lost cause already I suppose it wouldn't be so bad to move on already, or maybe I'm just stressing it out too much. I tend to over think things.
Edit: texting operations have possibly failed. She replied, however I dislike texting because I never know what to say. I prefer phone conversations because I don't have time to think about what to say, it just comes out of my mouth. I guess I'll leave the conversation here and if anyone has feedback...
Also noted, I am not really sure how to "hit on people" or even how to banter or flirt...
Me: Hi ___ how's it going?
Her: Sorry about that, I was on a long distance call with a friend! Good to hear from you. Having a good day so far, how's yours?
Me: I was super anxious all day! oh man, i had a job interview last week and I was supposed to hear back today.
Her: oh no! don't give up hope yet, they might just not have their act togethe. I hope you hear from them soon! waiting is the worst.
Me: Yeah I'm sure I'll hear from them soon but I was wondering what your schedule was like this week?
Her: Things are really up in the air for me because my sister is only home for amonth so I'm trying to maximize time. But if she ends up having plans that don't involve me I can let you know, just can't make any promises until late july.
At this point I was dumbfounded and didn't know what to say so I just said "oh right, definitely have to spend time with her. any plans to watch fireworks on the 4th"
And she hasn't replied since. I know this isn't a dating forum but that's what happened. I feel as though I need to get this out so that I can at least get feedback? If this is a lost cause already I suppose it wouldn't be so bad to move on already, or maybe I'm just stressing it out too much. I tend to over think things.
