09-16-2013, 03:07 PM
(09-16-2013, 02:47 PM)K-Train Wrote: First off, bravo on walking away from that girl. That's literally a step in the right direction. Granted, there's nothing wrong with waiting on a girl especially if she does so for you on occasion however if she's going to be disrespectful, then you're certainly entitled to walk off from her. It took a while for me to be able to do that because as guys we sometimes get a high off being seen with a hot chick and thus we sometimes do the dumbest shit just to get that "high".
Now, the detachment, that is one of the greatest feelings of the Alpha Set. What essentially happens is that your desire for outside validation has decreased to the point where small, mundane things no longer bother you. You don't care whether people think you're "top dog" and thus you appear detached and aloof. I felt like that during stage 5 as well but stage 6 is where it cemented because I was able to crack jokes at my expense without a care in the world whereas previously i was very sensitive.
Sure I'd wait around for a girl if she was treating me with respect, and I'd return the favor if she hung around for me of course, but yeh I got no patience nor time to spend on wasters.
I appreciate the feedback K-train I like your posts they are honest but supportive at the same time, it's also good to hear similar things from people who have been through it and have more experience.
