09-03-2013, 03:12 PM
The first time I did Alpha Male was before it was really "Alpha Male". It was the response I had to realizing I had been raised to be a doormat for women, and was being treated as one by my girlfriend and expected to be one by my mother.
To make a long story short, to this very day, my ex girlfriend still hates me and will not even talk to me, in spite of the fact that she would like nothing more than to have married me and had kids with me, because after that I refused to be a doormat. My mother refused to even talk to me for months.
In the end, I got my mother's respect because I refused to accept the BS. The girlfriend wasn't capable of understanding that a man is not a dog, and does not deserve to be treated any less respectfully than a woman does. She got kicked out of my life.
It's not easy making your first transition, especially if you're still living at home and you have one or more females who are attacking you for standing up for yourself, and even worse if your supposed-to-be male role model is a happily brainwashed doormat in a long line of such.
But... this is the price for freedom and success. You are going to strengthen yourself, and the stronger you become, the taller you stand, the more you have a definite opinion, point of view and set of beliefs, the more polar a response the world will have to you. There is not a day that goes by that I do not have people telling me they love me and my work, and there is not a day that goes by that someone does not try to slander me, put me down, make up something about me, or in some way attack me, my work or business.
The fact is, the alpha is going to draw fire from those who disagree. But the more fire you draw from dissenters, the more support you simultaneously get from those who agree with you. There is no such thing as a free lunch. You can either be happy and be yourself and stand up and be counted, and have supporters who admire you while you draw fire from dissenters, or you can surrender, be a doormat, be lost in the shuffle and be miserable.
The thing to do is understand that attacks and dissent are not necessary to take personally. You can simply accept them as being information that someone else is communicating. And if they are framed as attacks, or even personal attacks, you can still take them as merely being information, which now includes knowledge that the person making those attacks does not have a very good argument because they must resort to ad hominem attacks to get anywhere in their argument!
Definitely get out on your own. But perhaps consider running AM back to back until you do, because now that you've made yourself the target of dissent, you're going to either keep fighting and keep increasing your strength, or you're going to get a herd trying to trample you without having the support of the subliminal.
In the end it's your choice, but if I were you, I would use it again and start trying to make a way to get out on my own. Hope that helps.
To make a long story short, to this very day, my ex girlfriend still hates me and will not even talk to me, in spite of the fact that she would like nothing more than to have married me and had kids with me, because after that I refused to be a doormat. My mother refused to even talk to me for months.
In the end, I got my mother's respect because I refused to accept the BS. The girlfriend wasn't capable of understanding that a man is not a dog, and does not deserve to be treated any less respectfully than a woman does. She got kicked out of my life.
It's not easy making your first transition, especially if you're still living at home and you have one or more females who are attacking you for standing up for yourself, and even worse if your supposed-to-be male role model is a happily brainwashed doormat in a long line of such.
But... this is the price for freedom and success. You are going to strengthen yourself, and the stronger you become, the taller you stand, the more you have a definite opinion, point of view and set of beliefs, the more polar a response the world will have to you. There is not a day that goes by that I do not have people telling me they love me and my work, and there is not a day that goes by that someone does not try to slander me, put me down, make up something about me, or in some way attack me, my work or business.
The fact is, the alpha is going to draw fire from those who disagree. But the more fire you draw from dissenters, the more support you simultaneously get from those who agree with you. There is no such thing as a free lunch. You can either be happy and be yourself and stand up and be counted, and have supporters who admire you while you draw fire from dissenters, or you can surrender, be a doormat, be lost in the shuffle and be miserable.
The thing to do is understand that attacks and dissent are not necessary to take personally. You can simply accept them as being information that someone else is communicating. And if they are framed as attacks, or even personal attacks, you can still take them as merely being information, which now includes knowledge that the person making those attacks does not have a very good argument because they must resort to ad hominem attacks to get anywhere in their argument!
Definitely get out on your own. But perhaps consider running AM back to back until you do, because now that you've made yourself the target of dissent, you're going to either keep fighting and keep increasing your strength, or you're going to get a herd trying to trample you without having the support of the subliminal.
In the end it's your choice, but if I were you, I would use it again and start trying to make a way to get out on my own. Hope that helps.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
