07-24-2014, 06:07 AM
Day 108 with LTU
I landed in Beijing 25. June and I’ve been here for a month now.
The first decision I made was to find a gym. I found a great one and took the cheaper off-peak membership where you can only train between 11pm - 11am.
Because of all the fun and non-seriousness I had going on with my girlfriend the weeks before I left for Beijing, I was extremely motivated to get into the habits and focus of a successful person.
The first two weeks my schedule looked like this:
6.00 - 6.30 Waking up
6.30 - 7.30 Downstairs and eating
7.30 - 8.30 Writing down my affirmations (later I in-cooperated 10 mins of meditation)
9.00 - 11.00 In the gym (lost 4 kg. in 3 weeks)
11.20 - 12.00 Washing clothes, showering etc.
12.00 - 14.00 Reading for 10-20 mins till I napped
14.30 - 18.30 Sitting in a bookclub, studying and reading (sometimes Skyping with gf for a while)
(Books I’m reading: Awaken The Giant Within ‘I wish I had this book when I was 15’. Essential Drucker ‘about management. Most of Druckers work in one book’. And a Chinese learning book)
19.00 - 20.00 Dinner with family
20.00 - 21.00 Buying nuts, water, banana etc. for the hotel
22.00 - 06.00 Waking up
Eventually the strong focus and motivation got a little lost because there were other things I had to put energy into (family related stuff) and that also made me lose the strong focus as my focus directed eventually to help the family-member.
Though ever since, I’ve still been to the gym 6 times a week and skipped breakfast half of the time. A little toughening.
Every Wednesday night there’s a free improv workshop here and it’s great fun. I’ve met 2 sweet girls and they are both potentials but since I’m in an exclusive relationship, I haven’t led the interactions to where things could get heated. They are good fun though and I get some social life too because of their invitations to all kinds of social (and little intimate) things.
(If you want to read what I did in Beijing last summer it is in my old WM 5.0 journal in the last pages. And it continues in the start of my old ALPHA MALE 5.0 journal. I find it sometimes very funny to see some of the BS I've written compared to this year)
I’m in a period of my life where I just want to focus on reading, studying and making money.. though a bit of fun with girls isn’t out of the picture ;-)
Women are beautiful, fun and refreshing. For example, today I was eating dinner by myself after reading and this pretty girl in short cowboy pants and her fading, intense redness in her hair nicely done sits 5 meters away in front of me.
I stood up, walked over and asked her why she was sitting there eating all by herself, a pretty girl like her. She was a little shy and she said she was waiting for her friend.
After my dinner arrived and I was halfway, her friend still didn’t show up so I got up and told her she could join me. She was a bit surprised and told that she thinks her friend is just in the area. She thanked me and I left.
Few minutes after she stood up and walked my way and I saw her true beauty when she smiled and said thanks again and goodbye.
Too few guys compliment girls for their beauty. For them having dressed nicely up, hair done, a certain piece of jewelry etc.
It is moments like these over and over again that forever changes the way I see women.
The place where I’ve seen women shine the most, of the few places I’ve been around in Europe and Asia, is Bucharest in Romania. Women are very elegant and their feminine spirit is very much expressed there.
All these things happening to me is because I am working to increase my value. I have a mission and I have something I want to live up to. Women are just a part of it which makes them want to be a part of it.
My confidence in meeting women is high and I now push the boundaries and sometimes don't care about how much I can tease with and how sexual inputs I can get away with.
As I’m reflecting on this past month, I see much more clearly what it means to “have an adventure that is not her”, “women just becomes a part of your life when you live your own life” or “women are icing on the cake”.
I landed in Beijing 25. June and I’ve been here for a month now.
The first decision I made was to find a gym. I found a great one and took the cheaper off-peak membership where you can only train between 11pm - 11am.
Because of all the fun and non-seriousness I had going on with my girlfriend the weeks before I left for Beijing, I was extremely motivated to get into the habits and focus of a successful person.
The first two weeks my schedule looked like this:
6.00 - 6.30 Waking up
6.30 - 7.30 Downstairs and eating
7.30 - 8.30 Writing down my affirmations (later I in-cooperated 10 mins of meditation)
9.00 - 11.00 In the gym (lost 4 kg. in 3 weeks)
11.20 - 12.00 Washing clothes, showering etc.
12.00 - 14.00 Reading for 10-20 mins till I napped
14.30 - 18.30 Sitting in a bookclub, studying and reading (sometimes Skyping with gf for a while)
(Books I’m reading: Awaken The Giant Within ‘I wish I had this book when I was 15’. Essential Drucker ‘about management. Most of Druckers work in one book’. And a Chinese learning book)
19.00 - 20.00 Dinner with family
20.00 - 21.00 Buying nuts, water, banana etc. for the hotel
22.00 - 06.00 Waking up
Eventually the strong focus and motivation got a little lost because there were other things I had to put energy into (family related stuff) and that also made me lose the strong focus as my focus directed eventually to help the family-member.
Though ever since, I’ve still been to the gym 6 times a week and skipped breakfast half of the time. A little toughening.
Every Wednesday night there’s a free improv workshop here and it’s great fun. I’ve met 2 sweet girls and they are both potentials but since I’m in an exclusive relationship, I haven’t led the interactions to where things could get heated. They are good fun though and I get some social life too because of their invitations to all kinds of social (and little intimate) things.
(If you want to read what I did in Beijing last summer it is in my old WM 5.0 journal in the last pages. And it continues in the start of my old ALPHA MALE 5.0 journal. I find it sometimes very funny to see some of the BS I've written compared to this year)
I’m in a period of my life where I just want to focus on reading, studying and making money.. though a bit of fun with girls isn’t out of the picture ;-)
Women are beautiful, fun and refreshing. For example, today I was eating dinner by myself after reading and this pretty girl in short cowboy pants and her fading, intense redness in her hair nicely done sits 5 meters away in front of me.
I stood up, walked over and asked her why she was sitting there eating all by herself, a pretty girl like her. She was a little shy and she said she was waiting for her friend.
After my dinner arrived and I was halfway, her friend still didn’t show up so I got up and told her she could join me. She was a bit surprised and told that she thinks her friend is just in the area. She thanked me and I left.
Few minutes after she stood up and walked my way and I saw her true beauty when she smiled and said thanks again and goodbye.
Too few guys compliment girls for their beauty. For them having dressed nicely up, hair done, a certain piece of jewelry etc.
It is moments like these over and over again that forever changes the way I see women.
The place where I’ve seen women shine the most, of the few places I’ve been around in Europe and Asia, is Bucharest in Romania. Women are very elegant and their feminine spirit is very much expressed there.
All these things happening to me is because I am working to increase my value. I have a mission and I have something I want to live up to. Women are just a part of it which makes them want to be a part of it.
My confidence in meeting women is high and I now push the boundaries and sometimes don't care about how much I can tease with and how sexual inputs I can get away with.
As I’m reflecting on this past month, I see much more clearly what it means to “have an adventure that is not her”, “women just becomes a part of your life when you live your own life” or “women are icing on the cake”.
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
