04-17-2017, 10:55 AM
(04-17-2017, 09:43 AM)CatMan Wrote: Hi there, ReeZox.
I don't know about body language stuff, I guess I don't put a lot of stock into how a woman points her feet etc. I don't buy it. I find it can be a slippery slope as I know a lot of people want to see the program work, to making mountains out of mole hills with stuff like this. I equate it to wishful thinking, and prefer to judge by clear and obvious indicators as they are more definite. I've been wrong often enough when trying to interpret female "cues", to question the signals being sent, if they are being sent at all. I've seen girls act WAY over the top obvious to guys they find really hot and sexy, so they do it, just never to me. But I've seen it often enough to know what it looks like, at least.
And it isn't that they aren't doing anything, they're nice and cool and good banter etc. it's that it seems the same as before. There hasn't been any tangible difference, is what I mean.
Okay, so for you to see tangible results from DMSI a woman has to tell you she wants you to fuck her, or to simply make her engage in intercourse with you?
By doing that you have created a mountain for DMSI to overcome from the beginning. Not saying it won't happen, I am quite sure it will. But maybe, something for you would be to instead of climbing a mountain start with a hill. And try rolling with the snowball effect. You will gain momentum, and motivation to keep doing DMSI and eventually that mountain will be overcome. And many guys says they know "these signs" and easily could get them if they were done to them. Yet when it does happen, maybe not the exact same thing. They don't get it.
Body language is not an exact science, but there can also be a lot of discussions on what is. What body language does, however, is showing what somebody unconsciously or consciously may be feeling. Arousal, fear or any of the other emotions.
A woman or a man pointing her feet towards you or someone else does not necessarily mean anything. But it COULD mean that their attention is towards whatever they're pointed towards. The more weird/random these movements tend to be, the more likely is that something caused that reaction and that something may very likely be an attractive male giving that effect. In this case a DMSI user (you).
Any sudden change is VERY LIKELY to be a "tell" of someone, no matter what the context is, that something that has been said/done caused this specific reaction. And depending on what the reaction was, it can be interpreted as a sign of anger, happiness or arousal.
For example, you do see when a person is genuinely happy, vs someone who just pretends to be happy. But at the same time, our faces is generally the one thing that shouldn't be trusted when reading body language.
If I am on a train and I see a woman pointing her feet towards me I don't really give a damn. There are too many reasons for why they could be pointed towards me. In some cases, it would make less sense if someone's feet ain't pointed towards me (if they're opposite me). But that doesn't mean they are having sexual dreams or are having anything with me involved in their thoughts at all. So using context together with reading body language is king.
But when this woman also starts flipping her hair away from her neck, starts acting nervously, starts "playing" with her purse. Gives me longer and longer looks. Continuing with the feets pointed towards me in a weird direction and more "weird" behavior that I can't describe with words, what is the likelihood of it being a reaction caused by me?
This is what I'm using, not an exact science. But my own logical thinking of the likelihood based on my own objective observations of all this non-verbal information. So even if you may be skeptical of body languages in general, I don't think you are skeptical of your own logical thinking. What you should do is open yourself up to the possibilities that body languages could give these clues to a certain feeling/emotion of another person. What you then have to do is find out what these clues are, so you can decode them.
My logical thinking in this context would conclude the chances this woman is interested in me. Is quite high. I could be wrong, and I'm open for that. But the chances of her being interested is higher than a woman who just looks at her phone on the train.
None of these were "obvious" signs. But they are very good tells, as they all are almost certainly done unconsciously.
Seeing that you have said yourself that you are seen as a social and charming guy, and if I've read correctly that you are an ENTJ (same as me) who are generally quite captivating. This together with you being a "successful" gentleman (society's standards), there is already some big chances these women you hang out with were interested in you from the beginning. Before starting DMSI but that you haven't "caught onto it". Or have unconsciously done something to "screw it up".
This is the case for me. I haven't noticed any major changes in my life with girls I know. Some girls that I haven't been paying attention to, has however been trying to engage with me more since starting DMSI. But that is the only external effect I can say from girls within my social circle. Why is this the case? Could it be that these women were interested in me before doing DMSI and that I don't see any changes because they are already "acting" interested?
I know this as a fact for me.
Could it be the same for you? I would definitely say it's possible, and right now I also think it would be a positive thing for you to start trying to climb that hill, before going for the mountain.