(03-07-2016, 01:04 AM)LionKing Wrote:(03-06-2016, 04:38 PM)RTBoss Wrote: My wife is getting exposure to this program, as well. She thinks I'm still running SR, I didn't tell her about spending $$$ on a new program - it'll be interesting to see if she comments, and also what I notice. I'll report that here, too.
As in, your money is shared and she'd get angry at you for spending it? Sounds horrible, submissive and a recipe for drama (the shared part). No disrespect meant, I'm enjoying your journals and wish you the best!
We are married, so yes, money is shared. We have a plan to reduce debt that includes a budget, so we have a rule that we will discuss "big purchases," with each other that was previously defined as spending over $100. Therefore, no discussion needed. I don't know if you're married, but that's how we do things at the moment. We're partners, we're not perfect, and we do the best we know how at the time.