09-25-2016, 10:13 AM
Shannon, I saw your recent post in Dzemoo's journal and I could really use some advice.. Where do you draw the line between honesty and neediness? The oneitis I've mentioned prior, when we were hooking up everything was going fine until she had to cancel some plans and I got a little needy and asked her if she had lost interest. She said no and that she'd just been busy and stressed but it was the beginning of the end. Anyway last night I was at a party, first time seeing her after 4 months no contact. It went exactly how I wanted it to go, I was the life of the party (thank you dsmi), I flirted with other girls in front of her another girl was literally touching my abs when she looked over. Her and I ended up having a good flirty chat, and she's sent me a few snapchats since, nothing suggestive, but we were complete no contact before the party. This brings me to my original question.. if I was to be honest I would message her and say I missed her and want to see her, but that's the kind of needy thing that has pushed girls away from me in the past. In my experience the girls who have stuck around are the ones I haven't cared about and I was indifferent to. And certainly things were going great with this girl when I was chill and barely contacting her between meets but I was hiding my feelings, I wanted a relationship. So how honest can one really be, when past experience dictates that feigning indifference works better?
Turning super saiyan.