05-19-2017, 07:45 PM
It's surprising me how strong my victim mentality is. Thankfully I'm starting to see through it with AM6 but I can safely attribute all of my hurt from my most recent breakup to this victim mentality. When I reflect on the life I've lead I see just how disabling it has been to see myself as a victim and give myself self-pity. I'm not saying I was responsible in these situations but focusing on myself as the role of the victim has led me to spend more time than I ever should reflecting on the past and how unhappy it has made me.