12-14-2018, 05:00 PM
Quote:Asking to stop doing something that turns you on will just encourage to do it more if that is what she wants...
Not always true. It depends on the woman and her level of experience and self confidence. I usually tell them something like, "If you want to have sex with me, by all means, keep going. Otherwise, you might want to stop, because that is turning me on. A lot. And if you don't want sex, that's not fair to me."
If her aim is sex, you'll find out REAL quick after that. But she gets the ego stroking regardless, and you don't have the chance of accidentally discouraging her if she's insecure or inexperienced.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!