11-22-2016, 03:42 PM
(11-22-2016, 03:32 PM)Shannon Wrote: The first rule is, you as a human being cannot force the whole world to operate the way you want it to. No matter what you do, how much you want it, or who you are.
That is the rule you refuse to follow. You do seem to be making strides in the right direction, though.
I don't know how the world works, if I did, I wouldn't be having this problem.
And how do you know I'm making strides in the right direction? You must be seeing something I'm not, you must also know what the right direction is, in which case why don't you just tell me or write a book or something?
(11-22-2016, 03:32 PM)Shannon Wrote: You can change certain things through various means, but not the whole thing. That means you have to go with the flow sometimes. Work with "what is", instead of trying to change it. The key is knowing when you can change something, and when you cannot. It's not always easy to learn, or teach that stuff. I've tried to help, but we don't seem to communicate well enough for me to put it in words that you understand. Maybe that is not an accident.
Here's the problem: "What is"... what is that? What really IS what is...
That's so vague it could mean a million things. That's why I don't understand. I need specific examples of things that "are" or "what is" and the contrast to "what is not".
(11-22-2016, 03:32 PM)Shannon Wrote: Some rules you are meant to be aware of, and some you are not. For those you are not supposed to be aware of, you have to rely on your deep subconscious, higher self or whatever you want to call it, to help you out. Which I'm doing through subs.
Beyond that, it's the grindstone of life. That's why they say youth is wasted on the young: they don't know what they've got, because they haven't had the experience to understand yet.
I think autism is a little different than just failing to learn "what is". Just saying.
I don't want to put limiting beliefs on myself, but with all the knowledge and experience I have, you'd think if I didn't have some defect of the mind I'd have figured this out already.
What I need is examples of the "what is" stuff.
If you really want to help, just point it out.
I made a post about a girl in the library today, if you really want to help, explain what happened, because I can't. The girl literally did a 180 on me while I was interacting normal, with no neediness, nothing that I can see was wrong, yet her sudden repulsion and "snap" in behavior indicates I did do something, or did not do something, and I need to find out lest I keep doing this over and over and over to infinity.