05-26-2016, 05:01 AM
(05-26-2016, 04:50 AM)Alpha360 Wrote: It's not what I mean here, I didn't say to enjoy it but to not be fearful about it. Or the see the attention from gay men as something positive because it means you are attractive, it doesn't mean that you are going to spend time with them. You just tell them you are not interested.
To me the main reason people are asking to remove unwanted attention from men do it because they are fearful or they don't have enough assertiveness to deal with those unwanted attention. There are guys here who are also complaining about unwanted attention from ugly women. Just be assertive enough and remove the fear.
Education is required because when fear is involved the person doesn't think objectively, he is irrational. To me there is no good reason to remove the attraction from gay dudes, there is more profit to let gay dudes hit on us. All the request comes from fear or lack of assertiveness (lazyness) or ignorance.
I'm not fearful, and I have a few gay male friends. I'm in no need of education, thanks.