11-16-2014, 10:16 AM
Not sure what you meant at the end there. You seemed to have it all figured out saying this \/
Why not see them as fleshlight with legs that have personality? lol
I think you're still resisting the animal lust part of sex, wanting it to be "more". That takes time. Getting to know women is just as much about getting to know their body as their personality.
(11-16-2014, 10:10 AM)DanAmerson Wrote: If I wanted a girl simply because of one feature on her body, that would be kind of low, especially if I don't care at all about the woman. I'm not trying to have sex with an ass. Or just with a nice set of tits. I'm trying to have sex with women, women who give me an overall visceral feeling of 'yes, I'd want to have sex with HER'.
I also want to make sure that I (very generally) enjoy the company of the woman; she respects herself enough to not damage her body through hard drugs, cigarettes and alcohol, she has some sense of humor, she has a somewhat pleasant disposition, that we have some chemistry and that she's feminine. Once again, I'm trying to have sex with a woman, not a fleshlight with legs.
Why not see them as fleshlight with legs that have personality? lol
I think you're still resisting the animal lust part of sex, wanting it to be "more". That takes time. Getting to know women is just as much about getting to know their body as their personality.