11-01-2014, 01:20 AM
Maybe SM is working perfectly for you, and repelling her.
If like attracts like, and repels not-like (i.e. Law of Attraction), then it makes sense that you would repel women who aren't aligned to sexual vibes, if you are expressing alot of them.
And besides, would you REALLY want to be with a woman who is 'orthodox'?
She may end up being more trouble then it's worth.
I have a friend who had a woman come to his house, and his work on a regular basis.
He said that he doesn't want anything serious, but she was scary determined to have a serious long-term relationship with him.
She had this fantasy, that she would win his heart, etc. If she stalked him hard enough.
My friend was being very blunt about not wanting anything, for 9 months straight.
In the end, she eventually starting stalking someone else.
If like attracts like, and repels not-like (i.e. Law of Attraction), then it makes sense that you would repel women who aren't aligned to sexual vibes, if you are expressing alot of them.
And besides, would you REALLY want to be with a woman who is 'orthodox'?
She may end up being more trouble then it's worth.
I have a friend who had a woman come to his house, and his work on a regular basis.
He said that he doesn't want anything serious, but she was scary determined to have a serious long-term relationship with him.
She had this fantasy, that she would win his heart, etc. If she stalked him hard enough.
My friend was being very blunt about not wanting anything, for 9 months straight.
In the end, she eventually starting stalking someone else.