09-04-2012, 06:32 AM
Well said Cortez,
it seems the higher level of non-neediness and internal fulfillment the more 'desiring' and or sexual a guy can be right off the bat. Woman want to be desired-but mostly from a high status internally fulfilled man with choice. To woman, when a guy like that engages them, on some primal level its almost like they know there getting picked out of many other options.
I think being uninterested in woman is a symptom of the cause of WHY woman would be attracted to men who are like that, certainly not the cause itself. The cause is that that man is less invested in that woman than she is in him, he is also on no level-down to the subtlest 'micro' behavior-seeking her approval and looking for her permission or validation-that is incredibly attractive quality-because it shows strength, independence, congruence, and realness-its instantly trust-able. one can be totally internally fulfilled in the way Shannon and Cortez spoke about and still display varying levels of interest. In my experience either a tentative interest in a playful way or being overtly desiring of her both seem to be the natural extensions of that internal freedom that bridge the gap very well-also in my experience being being uninterested in woman when engaging them is and of itself is only attractive to woman who seek validation and woman who are used to being fawned over there whole lives. Continued aloofness and active disinterest with a quality woman will probably start to put her off fairly quickly.
it seems the higher level of non-neediness and internal fulfillment the more 'desiring' and or sexual a guy can be right off the bat. Woman want to be desired-but mostly from a high status internally fulfilled man with choice. To woman, when a guy like that engages them, on some primal level its almost like they know there getting picked out of many other options.
I think being uninterested in woman is a symptom of the cause of WHY woman would be attracted to men who are like that, certainly not the cause itself. The cause is that that man is less invested in that woman than she is in him, he is also on no level-down to the subtlest 'micro' behavior-seeking her approval and looking for her permission or validation-that is incredibly attractive quality-because it shows strength, independence, congruence, and realness-its instantly trust-able. one can be totally internally fulfilled in the way Shannon and Cortez spoke about and still display varying levels of interest. In my experience either a tentative interest in a playful way or being overtly desiring of her both seem to be the natural extensions of that internal freedom that bridge the gap very well-also in my experience being being uninterested in woman when engaging them is and of itself is only attractive to woman who seek validation and woman who are used to being fawned over there whole lives. Continued aloofness and active disinterest with a quality woman will probably start to put her off fairly quickly.
1. There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.
2. A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions... Success and failure are for him answers above all.
3. I would not know what the spirit of a philosopher might wish more then to be than a good dancer.-F.N.
2. A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions... Success and failure are for him answers above all.
3. I would not know what the spirit of a philosopher might wish more then to be than a good dancer.-F.N.