Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

[AbundanceCH]

Shannon, I ask the following because it's one of my own issues and it seems to be one that many in this forum suffer from which is a major contributing factor to their lack of success in life or with women.

When it comes to a controlling/overprotective mother who uses guilt to control you...what's the best way to deal with them?

We can't just let go of our own mothers like we can do with toxic friends and people. So the only other choice is to just change ourselves so they finally end up respecting us based on the new vibration we put out. We change and the world around us changes mentality.

But what if we haven't been able to achieve the success or whatever necessary for them to change their attitude towards us? I remember reading your story which you mentioned how your family didn't respect you until you finally achieved success.

It just seems like a cruel test life has placed on a lot of us in order to force us to change. I wish I could just be myself and be accepted and respected..

[ncbeareatingman]

Shannon, I ask the following because it's one of my own issues and it seems to be one that many in this forum suffer from which is a major contributing factor to their lack of success in life or with women.

When it comes to a controlling/overprotective mother who uses guilt to control you...what's the best way to deal with them?

We can't just let go of our own mothers like we can do with toxic friends and people. So the only other choice is to just change ourselves so they finally end up respecting us based on the new vibration we put out. We change and the world around us changes mentality.

But what if we haven't been able to achieve the success or whatever necessary for them to change their attitude towards us? I remember reading your story which you mentioned how your family didn't respect you until you finally achieved success.

It just seems like a cruel test life has placed on a lot of us in order to force us to change. I wish I could just be myself and be accepted and respected..

Going through very similar shit right now Man,I swear, very soon,after many years of dealing with toxic family members,I am finally divorcing almost every one of MY Family members,except my mother and an older cousin,whose like a sister to Me. Defintley dealing with MY Mother and the issues there of,exactly as you described too,
I have a large family and extended family,Im done with thier asses.dealing with a lotta shit on a lot of levels with a lot of souls,plus all the stuff that USLM2 is bringing up,dealing with and processing for Me..
I honor your courage for bringing this all to the forum and being willing and open enough to share it with us here. appreciate cha,Man! excellent questions. thejourney continues. Keith

[Paul1131]

Shannon, I ask the following because it's one of my own issues and it seems to be one that many in this forum suffer from which is a major contributing factor to their lack of success in life or with women.

When it comes to a controlling/overprotective mother who uses guilt to control you...what's the best way to deal with them?

We can't just let go of our own mothers like we can do with toxic friends and people. So the only other choice is to just change ourselves so they finally end up respecting us based on the new vibration we put out. We change and the world around us changes mentality.

But what if we haven't been able to achieve the success or whatever necessary for them to change their attitude towards us? I remember reading your story which you mentioned how your family didn't respect you until you finally achieved success.

It just seems like a cruel test life has placed on a lot of us in order to force us to change. I wish I could just be myself and be accepted and respected..

How do you deal with her? Don’t. Realize that the way she treats you comes from a problem with her, not a problem with you. Keep her at enough of a remove that her behavior doesn’t harm you until she realizes what she has been doing, and indicates that she is ready to deal with you as a full adult person.
I barely spoke to my mother for seventeen years until she called one day and said she realized how crappy she had been to me. Now we get along really well. Remember, you always have the right to protect yourself from the damage that other people’s mental crap causes.

[DarthXedonias]

Going through very similar shit right now Man,I swear, very soon,after many years of dealing with toxic family members,I am finally divorcing almost every one of MY Family members,except my mother and an older cousin,whose like a sister to Me. Defintley dealing with MY Mother and the issues there of,exactly as you described too,
I have a large family and extended family,Im done with thier asses.dealing with a lotta shit on a lot of levels with a lot of souls,plus all the stuff that USLM2 is bringing up,dealing with and processing for Me..
I honor your courage for bringing this all to the forum and being willing and open enough to share it with us here. appreciate cha,Man! excellent questions. thejourney continues. Keith

I have to agree with Keith here. I'm in the process of finally getting my degree then I'm moving to entirely different country. I obviously don't plan on talking to any of my family members ever again, mother included. So there is no universal law saying you have to keep a relationship with people just because they are related to you. That just seems to be a cultural assumption that really doesn't take into account when such family members are very toxic or are holding you back because they "refuse" to deal with their own issue. I like what one person has said, "You should have standards for people you choose to have relationships with in your life but for those relationships you didn't have a choice in choosing (relatives, etc) those standards should be even higher since you had no choice in the matter".

Point is if your relatives don't plan on changing at all (which is a likely option because not everyone "wants" to change) then you only end up getting hurt in the long run by choosing to associate with them especially if you notice they are negatively influencing you more than you are positively influencing them.

[Shannon]

The sensation I feel is being frustrated with life. At the moment I feel calm and peaceful. I have been studying Stoic philosophy so I am learning to keep a level head regardless of what is going on.

Shannon will this new program result in a greater occurrence of positive coincidences?

If that's what you want to call them - it should, yes.

I will make a list of goals that I want to achieve and focus on them. With the FRM, the results should come faster than before

Until we know how this version works,a you should keep your list of goals to 1, 2 or 3 items long.

How detailed should these goals be when using US/LM?

Generally speaking, we don't know yet. But it should be true that you don't need to get too specific. Just have the desired end goal clearly in mind, and let your subconscious achieve it for you. Make it clear enough that when you get it, it won't leave you wishing for something else.

For example would a goal of having a beautiful girlfriend inside and out be enough or does one need to get much more specific?

You don't have to be terribly specific, but you do have to be accurate.

Also does these goals need action steps or is these goals more of a 'I want to manifest this' and then letting US/LM bring it about?

Audaces fortuna iuvat. (Fortune favors the bold.)

When you are wanting to achieve something, you can do it two ways. You can be active, or passive. Either way will work for this program, but one will usually be much faster. Guess which one.

[Shannon]

Shannon, I ask the following because it's one of my own issues and it seems to be one that many in this forum suffer from which is a major contributing factor to their lack of success in life or with women.

When it comes to a controlling/overprotective mother who uses guilt to control you...what's the best way to deal with them?

Refuse to allow yourself to be treated in any way that degrades or damages you or your mental, physical and or health or success.

We can't just let go of our own mothers like we can do with toxic friends and people. So the only other choice is to just change ourselves so they finally end up respecting us based on the new vibration we put out. We change and the world around us changes mentality.

Of course you can let go of your own mother like you do with other toxic people. Don't fool yourself, toxic mothers are just like anyone else who is toxic for you, and you can and should treat them like anyone else who is toxic for you. Put yourself in a position to cut them out of your live if need be, or demand that they treat you in ways that are not toxic if not, but DO NOT EVER allow yourself to be manipulated, mistreated, hurt, used, damaged, degraded, etc. Especially by your "family and friends"! In many cases they rely on guilt, shame, fear and the like to keep you thinking "we can't just get rid of them, they're family!" No, family isn't toxic. Toxic people are toxic. Family is helpful, supportive and loving. That's why blood does not always make family.

But what if we haven't been able to achieve the success or whatever necessary for them to change their attitude towards us? I remember reading your story which you mentioned how your family didn't respect you until you finally achieved success.

My family still doesn't respect me. They still proverbially "pat me on the head" when I speak and "humor me". Some of them won't even talk to me, because they think I have everything handed to me in life. The truth is, I struggle with the best of them, because my path is unique, and nobody in my family (aside from my girlfriend) understands or values what I do. They respect me more than they did before I had my own business, but there still is little to no respect for me; in their minds, I am younger and less wealthy, and therefore, deserve less respect. Well, I deal with that by not needing their approval, understanding or validation, and accepting them as being unable to understand my position. It isn't worth my time to be bothered by. But my family isn't what I would call "toxic".

If your family is toxic and they cannot or will not change their ways (and let's face it, the only person you can change is yourself), then simply remove them from your life and make yourself free to heal and grow into a successful, happy person.

It just seems like a cruel test life has placed on a lot of us in order to force us to change. I wish I could just be myself and be accepted and respected..

You are here to learn something. That is change. And as you grow and improve, you continue to change. Sometimes the lessons are painful. Sometimes that is the only way to get you to face and outgrow fear. Whatever the method, you are being challenged to learn and grow in life. It's your choice what you do about it.

[Williamx25]

@Shannon

I'm running the Maximum Learning Speed program 5.5G now for 3 weeks. Just 4 loops every other day, and I have noticed that I tend to procrastinate, wasting time this week is my exam week midterm finals and I failed one exam already... Is it possible that i'm stone walling again? Or resisting this sub?

I deleted all my social media accounts, no youtube, no internet surfing, those are my procrastination triggers, so i'm doing everything I can to stay focussed on studying.

What can I do to improve this? Is it possible to increase loops to 8 during the night instead of 4? 4 loops seems way to little for me... Or maybe adjusting ASRB to listening every day?

Or do I need some patience and let the program run for at least 3 months until I can decide what to do?

Thanks in advance !

People with Maximum Learning Speed experience, please feel free to chime in.

[nele91]

Hi @Williamx25 , I'm also listening to the MLS for 56 days,4 loops,1 day on,1 day off. I want to become fluent in english and need to become fluent in italian,because I'm in Italy now. I'm thinking that we need to listen to it for everyday, because for me it's not giving that much of a result. I will wait until 90 days and then start to listen it for every day 4 loops,to see what will happen. Good luck

[Determined]

@Shannon

I'm running the Maximum Learning Speed program 5.5G now for 3 weeks. Just 4 loops every other day, and I have noticed that I tend to procrastinate, wasting time this week is my exam week midterm finals and I failed one exam already... Is it possible that i'm stone walling again? Or resisting this sub?

I deleted all my social media accounts, no youtube, no internet surfing, those are my procrastination triggers, so i'm doing everything I can to stay focussed on studying.

What can I do to improve this? Is it possible to increase loops to 8 during the night instead of 4? 4 loops seems way to little for me... Or maybe adjusting ASRB to listening every day?

Or do I need some patience and let the program run for at least 3 months until I can decide what to do?

Thanks in advance !

People with Maximum Learning Speed experience, please feel free to chime in.

We each have an inner hurdle of success.

If the bar is too low, procrastination is easy because we'll always default to putting off whatever it is that needs to be done until the last crucial moments.

However, if the bar is high, the person usually completes whats required diligently before hand because they're subconsciously chasing excellence.

Adjusting your inner hurdle is what's required here.

[Greenduck]

Hi there Shannon. Thanks for E2, it's helping me relaxing and recovering from panic attacks.

I have been crippled with fear during my depression, but have gotten much better since I started working on my root chakra with a daily meditation and an exercise called trauma releasing exercises. I know that some members are struggling with fear and you are trying to find a solution for this, so I just wanted to share my five cents. I don't know how well-read you are on chakras, but the root chakra help the soul/psyche/consciousness to be in contact with our body. When we are not, we are ruled by fear. When we are, we feel safe and can go on with our life on our terms more easily. This would explain why some members feel the fear they do, and others don't.

Good luck with your work. You are making a difference.

[Shannon]

@Shannon

I'm running the Maximum Learning Speed program 5.5G now for 3 weeks. Just 4 loops every other day, and I have noticed that I tend to procrastinate, wasting time this week is my exam week midterm finals and I failed one exam already... Is it possible that i'm stone walling again? Or resisting this sub?

That would be action in direct opposition to what the program is aiming to achieve, so I would say you are resisting.

I deleted all my social media accounts, no youtube, no internet surfing, those are my procrastination triggers, so i'm doing everything I can to stay focussed on studying.

Excellent choices.

What can I do to improve this? Is it possible to increase loops to 8 during the night instead of 4? 4 loops seems way to little for me... Or maybe adjusting ASRB to listening every day?

If you are following the instructions, and responding with procrastination, the best thing to do is seek within the answer to the question "Why?" Why are you procrastinating? Why are you resisting? Knowing that, all of that, will tell you what the real issue is and how to overcome it.

Spend some time going back through your experiences with learning and school, and what people have told you about yourself concerning those things. The things you experienced, and what you concluded about them, are what matter for explaining why you would be doing this. Procrastination is resistance based in fear. What are you afraid of?

Or do I need some patience and let the program run for at least 3 months until I can decide what to do?

After 3 weeks, you can't know what will happen after 3 months, but I understand your frustration. Seek the cause, and see what you find.

Thanks in advance !

People with Maximum Learning Speed experience, please feel free to chime in.

[Shannon]

Hi @Williamx25 , I'm also listening to the MLS for 56 days,4 loops,1 day on,1 day off. I want to become fluent in english and need to become fluent in italian,because I'm in Italy now. I'm thinking that we need to listen to it for everyday, because for me it's not giving that much of a result. I will wait until 90 days and then start to listen it for every day 4 loops,to see what will happen. Good luck

Are you resisting? Procrastinating? Stonewalling? What?

[Shannon]

Hi there Shannon. Thanks for E2, it's helping me relaxing and recovering from panic attacks.

Thank you for using my creations to improve yourself.

I have been crippled with fear during my depression, but have gotten much better since I started working on my root chakra with a daily meditation and an exercise called trauma releasing exercises. I know that some members are struggling with fear and you are trying to find a solution for this, so I just wanted to share my five cents. I don't know how well-read you are on chakras, but the root chakra help the soul/psyche/consciousness to be in contact with our body. When we are not, we are ruled by fear. When we are, we feel safe and can go on with our life on our terms more easily. This would explain why some members feel the fear they do, and others don't.

The chakra system is one way to approach the issue, but it is not the only way. The method I have created with the FRM is actually deeper than this. It works directly on what originally causes the blockages to the chakras.

Good luck with your work. You are making a difference.

Thank you. That's what keeps me going when it seems hopeless and endless.

[Chris P. Bacon]

Hi there Shannon. Thanks for E2, it's helping me relaxing and recovering from panic attacks.

Thank you for using my creations to improve yourself.

I have been crippled with fear during my depression, but have gotten much better since I started working on my root chakra with a daily meditation and an exercise called trauma releasing exercises. I know that some members are struggling with fear and you are trying to find a solution for this, so I just wanted to share my five cents. I don't know how well-read you are on chakras, but the root chakra help the soul/psyche/consciousness to be in contact with our body. When we are not, we are ruled by fear. When we are, we feel safe and can go on with our life on our terms more easily. This would explain why some members feel the fear they do, and others don't.

The chakra system is one way to approach the issue, but it is not the only way. The method I have created with the FRM is actually deeper than this. It works directly on what originally causes the blockages to the chakras.

Good luck with your work. You are making a difference.

Thank you. That's what keeps me going when it seems hopeless and endless.

Shannon, in the 2 years I have run subs I have seen more growth than in most of the rest of my life put together. I have seen what I thought was impossible, I have changed dramatically due the entertaining the possibility described in the script of every subliminal.

I think we are so hungry for more and better because SUBS WORK!!

When you reach the end of your life I think you'll be satisfied with what you have done. There may be more work to be done than what can be done in your life, but you're doing something that has never been done this effectively ever and is a frontier in personal development.

While I wish you would train an apprentice or increase the people that could help make and understand subs so that more work will get done, I seem to remember you saying that there are constrictions on what you can share as well as personal opinions and desires on the situation. So it is what it is. Just pass the torch when it's time.

You are doing a lot and you are appreciated.