(07-11-2016, 08:43 AM)dissonance Wrote:(07-11-2016, 06:20 AM)Shannon Wrote:(07-11-2016, 05:59 AM)dissonance Wrote:(07-11-2016, 05:52 AM)Shannon Wrote:(07-11-2016, 05:47 AM)dissonance Wrote: Is the reason being inexperience/virginity letting it bring down confidence or something related to that? If so, i look forward to this module.
In CatMan case, he has some blocks because if anger toward women. This should help with that.
Sarge is apparentlydoomed to suffer the limits of his faulty beliefs instead.
Ah ok, by the way I edited my post with some new questions if you have the time
Which post?
I'll just copy paste:
"Is the reason being inexperience/virginity letting it bring down confidence and/or somehow self-sabotaging action taking? or something related to that? If so, i look forward to this module.
I have this subconscious OCD fear of like what if I'm all sexy and really attractive to this girl, then we get to the bedroom, and I say to her "hey, i've never done this before", what would she think? Or if I don't tell her I'm a virgin, and I end up being shitty in bed or really nervous, and she's like wtf is wrong with this guy he sucks in bed, even though I know I'd be at least decent in bed the first time (I do my "research" lol).
By the way, what would be the most effective at removing these subconscious fears and blocks, caring what other people think, that I just mentioned? AM6? OGSF? or would V2.3 be more effective since it's 5.5G?
And what do you guys think? Is it better to let a girl know I'm a virgin before the sex or no?"
My first time was at age 20, because I was so terrified of being laughed at that I wouldn't dare let any female know I was a virgin or that I was interested in having sex with them. I overheard the girls at my highschool talking about "how stupid guys were" for not knowing how to put on a condom, etc.
When I tried to trust someone for my first time, we both being virgins, did not get very far. Neither one of us understood how to do anything, and so she was dry as a bone and I had no idea that we needed lube or foreplay to change that. She ended up turning on me at school and telling everyone I was a lousy lover, even though we never got to actual penetration.
When I lost my virginity, it was because a woman I met (friend of a friend) actually led me through all of it. And when we had finished having sex for the first time, and I told her she had just taken my virginity, she literally slapped me so hard I fell off my bed.
I asked her why the hell she did that, and she said, "Don't you ever lie to me again. There is no way a virgin fucks like that."
What she didn't understand was that when a virgin is wearing an extra strong (read: extra thick) condom, and is terrified of not being good enough, a virgin can sometimes fuck forever without any trouble doing so.
Long story short, if I had just told someone I liked and wanted to have sex with that I liked them and that I wanted to give them my virginity, things would have been a lot easier, and I wouldn't have had to wait to 20.
Women are usually attracted by virgins. Just tell her you're a virgin and you don't know what you're doing yet in some things, and ask her to teach you how to have sex in a way that pleases a woman.
The best sub for overcoming this would be E2. DMSI 2.2 would be second, probably, since it's OGSF module is aimed specifically at achieving sex.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!