05-24-2015, 05:48 PM
(05-24-2015, 05:38 PM)iRRepLaceaBLe Wrote: SargeMaximus,I see how frustrating is for you to 'handle' the advices ,the preaching and their own.experiences,putting them in your face.It's full of motivational speakers on this forum,people who understand you more than you yourself do, and people who will gladly put you down so that they can uplift themselves.There is nothing wrong with that,but it is about being helpful,not annoying.
I think this negativity will get you nowhere.Plus the motivational speakers here make matters worse.I,personally,if you have encountered threads of mine,get annoyed when people either don't understand the question,or they try to add in some personal ,off- topic and not really helpful philosophy,or they blame me for my scepticism and curiosity.Why bother ?
What I think :These are your own issues.You should seek for
the answers on your own.We can't help you the way you can help yourself.
SOMEONE WHO GETS IT!!!! lol
I agree with you in a lot of ways man, BUT I do need/want opinions from some (Like Shannon) because he seems to know a bit more about self-mastery than most.
As for "why bother"? I thought of that myself before responding to Catman. I literally thought (oh, an "ignorant". >>)
Thing is, staying quiet, well, that's what I've done most of my life. I am totally convinced that the lack of advocation for me led to a belief that I don't deserve advocacy. It is, then UP TO ME to advocate FOR MYSELF. Sure, you can take the Jesus road and stay silent, and they'll marvel. But does it help? I don't know. I really don't.
In the infinite choices in life, it is truly a wonder any of us are still alive.