02-06-2016, 12:20 PM
(02-06-2016, 10:00 AM)wolverine_i_am Wrote: Hey Catman, have you tried cold approaching before? The reason I ask is because I used to be in the same situation as you. Late-bloomer, zero experience with women, dateless, etc. I found it strange, cause I could never meet any girl interested in me from social circles, school, work, etc. I thought there was something wrong with me - that the universe was plotting against me or something. Anyway I finally had enough when I was in my late 20s, so I paid for coaching. That's how I got into pick up. It took so many months of hard work, and I'm still a work in progress. But I learnt how to flirt, attract women, get dates, etc. I keep telling everybody that if an extreme hard-case example like myself can do it, so can anybody else.
As I've said before, socially I have zero issue. Although generally guys in this position HAVE social issues, I have none. Cold approaching etc. is not my problem at all. There's just a glass ceiling in between me and sex. Likely fear.