02-06-2016, 10:00 AM
(02-06-2016, 12:54 AM)CatMan Wrote: My problem was, after doing 3,370.5 hours of AM6 to build a good foundation, and despite doing 3,610 hours of almost exclusive headphone use, at the loudest safest volume, and going out twice weekly with attractive, available females in settings where attraction etc. could've flowed easily...for whatever reason, I didn't see one single instance SM3 was doing anything for me or changing anything. It all felt the exact same, ie. nice, charming, fun, funny, charismatic, social, accomplished guy, but zero sexual attraction.
Apparently, Shannon has said some kind of fear, has caused all of it. So, I have to do OF, as I am now. I'll be honest, I'm a bit skeptical of magnets now, and figured that despite that, I SHOULD have seen something from it, no matter how small. I wasn't expecting massive success the first time through by any means, but when I seriously couldn't give credit to SM3 for anything during the entire period, I felt I couldn't justify the cost of it in truth. With honesty, I can't seriously give credit to anything the program did, except to make me exhausted and depressed when it continued to fail to make any kind of impact for me time and again. It blew out my confidence with girls that was already fragile and just starting to grow from AM6, because I figured there must be something seriously wrong with me and girls, if all of that effort with SM3 STILL amounted to nothing. I mean, when it gets to the point when I'm half-convinced either the sound files are damaged on the server or I've been mistakenly given the wrong program, we have serious issues. I figured those were the most reasonable reasons to explain why the program was so poor. Overall, it was a very disappointing experience I'm still not over, as I waited a long long time, to be able to use it. And still can't believe, it failed so badly.
Anyway, it's good to see somebody get success on it.
Hey Catman, have you tried cold approaching before? The reason I ask is because I used to be in the same situation as you. Late-bloomer, zero experience with women, dateless, etc. I found it strange, cause I could never meet any girl interested in me from social circles, school, work, etc. I thought there was something wrong with me - that the universe was plotting against me or something. Anyway I finally had enough when I was in my late 20s, so I paid for coaching. That's how I got into pick up. It took so many months of hard work, and I'm still a work in progress. But I learnt how to flirt, attract women, get dates, etc. I keep telling everybody that if an extreme hard-case example like myself can do it, so can anybody else.
