Two weeks to go before I go back to the Game. Some people here does not like PUA, but I believe that's where I must begin. Attracting women is a skill, no different from learning karate or another language. To be good at it, one has to practice. Of course, anyone of us can go out and just approach every women. Personally though, I don't always have that desire to approach women.
For instance, these past few weeks, my mind has been so busy figuring out how to make this post-rural life transition work for me (and doing all the actual work like moving my stuff, fixing my papers, finding a job, etc.). I'm often tired and has no desire to interact with beautiful women, even when they come in front of me. But I always think about improving my game.
I went sarging last Sunday with an acquaintance from another province. And we instadated a young 2-set. He did most of the interaction though (including kissing the girls). I just acted as a wingman, a helping hand who has routines to aid him bring the girls from the mall to the park.
After I got home, I read a book of Robert Greene where he narrated the story of how Charles Darwin became a master naturalist from a happy-go-lucky guy who did not seem to have anything to accomplish in life. He narrated how the young Darwin had so much passion in collecting biological specimen that he was thinking about it constantly. He collected thousands of specimen, cataloged them and studied them astutely.
I thought, if I could do that with my game, how can I not improve? If I think about it constantly (which I do now), give it so much passion, practice 4+ hours a day, catalog my approaches and study them astutely, what can I not achieve in 10 years? Charles Darwin did the hard cataloging of data back then when there was still no computer. I can do it more easily, I always have my smart phone in my pocket.
I spent 3 days developing a mobile survey set of 60 questions, which I hope can aid me in tracking and analyzing the results of my game. It now appears like an Android application. So, the next time I go out to sarge (in two weeks), I will just be executing an actual application of the program I created, with questions like "Rate your appearance when you approached the set", "We're you able to use the following vocal tonalities in your interaction?" "Did you smile when you opened them?", "How could you improve your banter next time?", etc. I'm just gonna input my answers easily and then after answering the form, it will create for me a pdf report of my approach to compare with my previous approaches and learn from. It's now version 1.0.7.
I so can't wait to use it... in two weeks
For instance, these past few weeks, my mind has been so busy figuring out how to make this post-rural life transition work for me (and doing all the actual work like moving my stuff, fixing my papers, finding a job, etc.). I'm often tired and has no desire to interact with beautiful women, even when they come in front of me. But I always think about improving my game.
I went sarging last Sunday with an acquaintance from another province. And we instadated a young 2-set. He did most of the interaction though (including kissing the girls). I just acted as a wingman, a helping hand who has routines to aid him bring the girls from the mall to the park.
After I got home, I read a book of Robert Greene where he narrated the story of how Charles Darwin became a master naturalist from a happy-go-lucky guy who did not seem to have anything to accomplish in life. He narrated how the young Darwin had so much passion in collecting biological specimen that he was thinking about it constantly. He collected thousands of specimen, cataloged them and studied them astutely.
I thought, if I could do that with my game, how can I not improve? If I think about it constantly (which I do now), give it so much passion, practice 4+ hours a day, catalog my approaches and study them astutely, what can I not achieve in 10 years? Charles Darwin did the hard cataloging of data back then when there was still no computer. I can do it more easily, I always have my smart phone in my pocket.
I spent 3 days developing a mobile survey set of 60 questions, which I hope can aid me in tracking and analyzing the results of my game. It now appears like an Android application. So, the next time I go out to sarge (in two weeks), I will just be executing an actual application of the program I created, with questions like "Rate your appearance when you approached the set", "We're you able to use the following vocal tonalities in your interaction?" "Did you smile when you opened them?", "How could you improve your banter next time?", etc. I'm just gonna input my answers easily and then after answering the form, it will create for me a pdf report of my approach to compare with my previous approaches and learn from. It's now version 1.0.7.
I so can't wait to use it... in two weeks