02-04-2016, 09:49 AM
(This post was last modified: 02-04-2016, 09:55 AM by dissonance.)
(02-03-2016, 07:06 PM)chaosvrgn Wrote: Honestly, it's no one's place here to psychoanalyze anyone else. No one here has the answers, and quite frankly, what works for one person may not work for another. For example, I'll tell you what my run of AM6 (and a few weeks of BASE 4G) did for me -- I've become what some people would consider "beta." And I'd tell them they're wrong.
I've become extremely honest and open with the women in my life -- what I want, how I feel and what I'm going to do. A lot of PUAs say to never discuss feelings, to become cold and indifferent. I don't feel like that AT ALL. Instead, I'm completely outcome independent. I discuss my feelings with them because I feel like it, and their reaction has no effect on me whatsoever. If they wanna consider me "beta" and leave my life, so be it. If they want to pursue a deeper connection, that's cool too. Interesting enough, it's the latter that's occurring. I'm starting to pick up signs of intense attraction, and I'm sure it's because I AM open, mixed with the fact that they can tell that I give no fucks about their reaction.
I think there's a bit of truth in what everyone's saying. Emotional independence is a good thing. Seeing women as worthless is bad -- and not on some white knight nonsense. Feminine energy is a good thing to have around, just like women crave masculinity. It's modern society that's screwed the whole thing up, this ridiculous individualistic culture we have. Socialsexual politics being little more than a zero sum game, where one gender has to lose for the other to get anything.
But anyway -- honestly, I'm perfectly happy with the way AM6 turned out. If anything, AM7 should be the same, just stronger. If we're making radical changes, however, I think we should stop focusing on becoming "alphas," and becoming "Renaissance Men." Imagine how the world would be today if we stopped dedicating our lives to getting laid, fighting with each other over race and crap and instead focused on developing our talents and applying them to the world in a useful way. The money, the women, and the success would follow naturally.
Yeah, but not everyone wants to live that life of a renaissance man. It only fits certain people. AM is designed to be a tool for anyone. Plus, getting laid is a very little focus in AM's script, if at all.
