(02-02-2016, 09:52 PM)CatMan Wrote: That'd lead to a very bleak, lonely existence.
I'm positive Shannon wouldn't implement those.
They also seem fear-based. And that whole "who cares the least controls the relationship". Wow, so it'd be a contest to care the least about the other person? Why be in a relationship with them then? What kind of relationship would that be? Awful.
Even a guy like me, one who has never had a girlfriend, never had sex, never been on a date or kissed a girl, and has only had misery and awful, horrible experiences with girls...believes there's more to them than the "who can care less" competition. Let's be honest, that's just a defense mechanism to not risk pain. I doubt it'd work with quality people that will enrich your life, in the real world...
Come on guys. This is all fear-based stuff. You're better than that, and clearly want more out of life, or you wouldn't be here at IML.
So why dont you have Girls then if you know so much about, have you ever thought about that maybe exactly this is the reason why you never had a girlfriend? Seems obvious for me who has the lonely existence here and the fear base is on your side dude you are too afraid to let the nice guy behavior go
I am positive that you wont have a girlfriend and women for a very long time with this thinking and it doesnt suprise me that you even resited sm3 so this speaks for its self how accurate your thinking is, you can fool yourself and have support here but not the universe or even girls they sense if something is fishy
Just keep repeating the same old stuff like you always do but dont blame the magnets or other subs if at the end you still dont get (real world) results
