Shannon's Journal

[Cortez]

SM isn't going to change my actual views on monogamy, ie my personal beliefs about how many women/partners I have at a time, will it?

I'm not entirely polygamous, i haven't had any types of those relationships but I hear they are a hassle to manage. Does SM cause me to have polygamous relationships or does it only give me the tools necessary if i wanted to have it (leaving me with the option to stay monogamous while in one relationship with a girl)?

SM doesn't affect your choices with polygamy, polyamory, etc. But the way you guys designed it, it definitely favors being open to multiple lovers. It's not going to take away your freedom to decide, but it will favor multiple lovers, even if not necessarily all at once.

On the other hand... it will probably naturally result in having multiple girlfriends at a time for some of you who use it, and they'll probably all know about each other while it's happening... the program strongly stresses being honest with all the women you deal with. The combination of that and the unabashed interest usually results in multiple simultaneous girlfriends/lovers, from my experience, although you're right. It is more effort than a lot of guys will want to put in... unless you're into a specific brand of D/s.

This should probably just strengthen my resolve then because that's already my view on things(Multiple girls+ Absolute honesty). Not that I'm against having just one girl, but that's not the way I naturally am. I just let them come as they come...