01-22-2016, 06:27 PM
(01-22-2016, 09:56 AM)Guider Wrote: And most of the time when you push through the result is positive. Deals with pulling the trigger.
Yeah exactly. That's what I keep hearing. Then when you make things sexual, girls actually respect us more for it.
The first few dates I had, I've just been playing it too safe. The reason was because I was afraid of messing things up and didn't wanna offend her. I was hoping that things will just spark by itself. It's such a beta mindset. I wondered why I never heard from these girls again after the dates, and now it's so clear why. They lose respect for us when we don't have the balls to step up and seize them.
The only way things will become sexual is if one initiates it - and it's usually the guy. I keep hearing guys say that once they get over that fear of being too safe, and actually start going for the kill, the sexual adventures start happening.